Is it possible to hack into a Yahoo email account? I've seen lots of ads from people or groups on the net who say they can do it. No money up front. You give the email address to them, and they send you proof (an email, screenshot of the inbox etc) and then you pay then anything from $100 to $150 for the password.

Sounds a bit scam-ish to me, but is it even possible? My head tells me its not possible, but my curiousity is telling me that it *could* work. Anyone tried it out before? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

you have no right to access an email account if he is living seperate of you... unless you own the computer. Doing so is a crime with a big fine attached.
Find another way to get the info you need...although since you say the A is ongoing, it sounds as though you do not need proof... you need help in facilitating its end.

MEDC

You are young and have no children together. She is having an A and you've only been married two years?

Have you considered just moving on with your life?

When the longtime MBers read this they'll probably fall off their chairs laughing. I have trouble taking the advice I'm given.

My XH had the first A in our first yr of marriage. I was stupid enough to tell no one, stay and deal with it and get past it on my own AND allow him to adopt my D. Ten years later we are newly divorced, I am lower than I've ever been emotionally, I'm still trying to get all my stuff from the house and he has now had mutliple affairs.

No one here has a crystal ball but you are at a point where you could make a clean break and not have to contend w/her for the rest of your life as you would if you had kids together. AND.............

do you want to bring kids into this and have them live the divorced parents lifestyle?


Just thoughts.

God bless.