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I was here the other day and found some basic steps on how to deal with a cheating spouse, what to do, what not to do, etc.. now I can't find it. Could somebody please guide me to it or answer with the link?
Thanks
Me 46; W 45; 2 kids (D16, D13)
Bomb 08/11/06
Married 19 years
Issue: Thought MLC, found out EA in Jan
possible PA?
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Have you read the basic concepts and articles on this website written by Dr. Harley? I would start with those to give you a better understanding.
Dev
BS - 31 (me)
WW - 29
M ~2 years, No kids
DDay - 2nd Dec 2006
Exposed - 15th Jan 2007
NC started - 14th Jan 2007
NC broken 23rd Jan 2007
NC broken many times since
Status: WS moved out 22 March 07 "to think"; A ongoing still; 2nd July 2007 - signed Divorce papers "I'm done!"
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Thanks but I bought Surviving An Affair and have read most of it, but the post or FAQ of dealing with cheating spouses here showed how to catch them, confront them, what not to do, what to do, etc...
Me 46; W 45; 2 kids (D16, D13)
Bomb 08/11/06
Married 19 years
Issue: Thought MLC, found out EA in Jan
possible PA?
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Hi Mike,
The basic concepts are the same, plan A/plan B.. can look that up in the articles/bsic concepts also.
I would encourage you to post your situation on this forum, lots of pros here can advise you on what to do. Although the basic concepts are standard, everyone's situation is unique and some of the pros here can help you with a plan tailored for you based on the Marriage Builders principles.
Dev
BS - 31 (me)
WW - 29
M ~2 years, No kids
DDay - 2nd Dec 2006
Exposed - 15th Jan 2007
NC started - 14th Jan 2007
NC broken 23rd Jan 2007
NC broken many times since
Status: WS moved out 22 March 07 "to think"; A ongoing still; 2nd July 2007 - signed Divorce papers "I'm done!"
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