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For those that don't know all my story, the link is below...the lice comment was included because through all of this my OC has come home with bugs consistantly from her donor's house EACH VISITATION SHE HAS. Excuse my glee...I don't mean to come off so vindictive...I'm just...well...sigh...I'm just....



Seems a certain Town Bicycle got her paycheck and OMG! The AG's office has begun garnishing wages from her to pay HER back child support to US!

O, Lordy! You should've HEARD the phonecall to the Wookie. Almost made me well again...almost...

All about how she doesn't make $12/hour...WE (yes, WE...ME and him...cos apparently SHE takes MY $$ into consideration even if the govt. doesn't) wanted custody of the kids so we could give them better....and he should just go sign the paper saying that she doesn't have to pay child support cos WE can afford to support ALL the kids....

Oh...LMAO...and wah, wah...since we got custody of the kids, they've dropped her food stamps from $600/mo to $400/month...and oh, yeah...her housing wanted her to move to a 3 bedroom, instead of the 4 bedroom cos WE got custody of 2 of her 6 kids...but she wanted to keep the 4 br, so SHE decided she'd pay the $300 difference every month.... so SHE can't afford the $80 they took out of her check...

Oh....HELLO...and because of the $80 they took out of her check, she can no longer pay for OCDS to have a birthday party...so the Wookie will forever be a deadbeat in her eyes if he doesn't at LEAST fork over a pinata this weekend for a birthday party SHE is giving, but WE aren't allowed to go to (we are having OUR OWN seperate celebration...AS USUAL).

This from the woman/thing that has NEVER had a birthday party for my boy...why? Because his birthday falls during Fiesta every year, and she's busy getting loaded downtown and trolling for more bike riders....EVERY YEAR since he was born.

"What's that smell, tart?"

"Oh...yeah....it's the smell of burning rubber running up your hinder."

As far as I'm concerned that $80 can buy 3 bottles of the lice meds we use on OCDD. It's about time SHE helped with this mess SHE allows to continue.

BTW: The $12/hour comment got me....this thing told the Wookie that when she got out of school she'd be making $15/hour and would meet a lawyer or a judge that would "take her away" and would get the kids back for her.

Like a judge or lawyer wants to hook up with a woman and her 6 kids....

PUH-HA-LEASE and POR FAVOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Ignore idiocy whenever possible

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Dealan-de...wanna sing with me?

o/~ "The Karma on the bus goes round and round,
Round and round,
Round and round,
The Karma on the bus goes round and around...

All around the town." o/~

You guys are getting out of the way of her consequences...and have been...and you may be the only brave people in her life to do that. Did Wookie have to take the call? Could this be the next reasonable consequence to her choices?

Knowing too much about her choices...would that be something you want to cut down on?

Great to see you...hinder and all.

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BTW: The $12/hour comment got me....this thing told the Wookie that when she got out of school she'd be making $15/hour and would meet a lawyer or a judge that would "take her away" and would get the kids back for her.


lol...I could definitely see some sort of law professional taking her away. And throwing away the key.


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LA - We take her calls because we have the kids. Usually she just asks to speak to them and hangs up when they are through...She jumped in before talking to the children.

Last night she asked if the Wookie would go pick up OCDS from daycare tomorrow (his birthday), bring him to her work so she could give him a kiss and tell him HBD, then take him back to daycare...

WTF?

As if...he told her that he would bring BOTH children to her AFTER work and give her and extra day with them (Wed. night)...She started sputtering then said, "I'll get back to you." Since Fiesta starts this weekend, I'm not holding my breath till she calls again.

OCDS told me this morning he wants a chocolate banana cake...Um...I'm not certain how to MAKE that....but lord knows I'll be looking for a recipe (hehe)! He will be my assistant tomorrow night (we call it "King/Queen for a day"). He wants to make cookies too.

The menu will be spaghetti with meat sauce, salad, homemade bread (the Littles LOVE kneading the bread) and MAS COOKIES!

Sounds like a good Wednesday birthday...the real party will be next weekends as this one isn't "our" weekend...tho...it might be anyway...


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Who cares if the Wookie is a deadbeat in her eyes?

Sounds like you're doing GREAT!
Banana chocolate sounds yummy.
allrecipes.com is probably your friend.

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The menu will be spaghetti with meat sauce, salad, homemade bread (the Littles LOVE kneading the bread) and MAS COOKIES!


I always end up hungry when I read your threads, do you know that?

I'm trying to teach P how to cook, and make bread with me. It's a challenge, but we trudge on. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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I made cottage cheese dill hamburger buns Sunday to go with our burgers.

They were so light and airy...I think I'm going to use cottage cheese as a bread base more often.

- Kimmy


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Hey Turtlehead...

I have to say, I LOVE your name.

So do Lucy and Desi and Little Ricky (my musk turtles...Little Ricky is the pleco in that tank), and Fred and Ginger - our red eared sliders here at work.


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Chunky Monkey Cake

I've made this before and it tasted good. I used dark chocolate, of course.


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Oh! Sans the nuts, he'd LOVE that...and best? He can sample the chocolate chips!

Thanks Dobs!


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Can't read your story. It requires a login.

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Sorry Larry.

The link is fixed. Didn't know the addy had changed when we changed servers.


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The bus didn't just stop - it unloaded. Maybe it was the Karma dump truck.

I read the whole thread, now I'm hungry again.

What's for dinner?

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I was thunkin & thunkin about this ... you know I would ENCOURAGE someone to take her away <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

However its the poor kids I feel so sorry for. I know schools have these issues with lice, I mean even child care centres do, even very good ones, but it seems to me she is one of those who cause the problems in the first place!!

Mikey had them once and I just about freaked ... using hair conditioner now most days as they can't stick to hair with that.

Aussie brings back LOTS of things whens gone bush, but he's easy to fix, shave his head and dip him in the sheep dip <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />


Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.

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My grandfather said sheep dip would cure most things. Maybe he was right.

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SS - I swear once we all meet in heaven you and da Mrs. are welcome every night for dinner, okay?

2night we are having leftovers...leftover enchiladas...lessee...chili...um...salad...hamburgers...oh, and maybe sandwiches...I've salsa basted turkey...we need to eat that...

Sister-in-law,

The brand of lice shampoo/conditioner actually is a brand from down under. It's expensive, but homeopathic (not that that's great...but better than loads of man made pesticide)...

As for my brother....I'd say leave him with the sheep till he can come into the house without the buggers....but then, you love him more than I do...I'll bet you even hug him when he's stinky from the field...blah!

Someone has to...'snot for the faint of heart, I don't think.

(Waving to Aussie if'n he can login)

- Kimmy


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I love left overs.

Thanks, and we accept. We'll be over that first night.
I keep thinking you will make it.

When you do, You'll have this really nice house. It will have a beautiful yard - and you'll need a shed out back to keep the lawn mower. Cut a trap door in the bottom of the shed, and I'll see if I can find my way there. I won't require much, and I'll cut the grass. One request though - can I have a little fridge with an icemaker? I promise I won't eat all the icecream.

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The ice cream will never make it to the freezer...my Grandpa's making it. He made the best homemade peach ice cream in the entire world.

And of course...all sheds in heaven have a fridge. That's where everyone keeps the extra beer and Coke (least, all the Southern angels do it thatta way).

- Kimmy


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