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does good sex = staying in love?
my partener for 5 years (engaged last christmas) told me on friday that she's not in love with me, we hardly had sex, or even made love for for nearly 2 years as we have a wonderful 10 month baby girl.
having a a baby is ment to bring people closer together!
or is it something else,
she said that she wants someone else, but willing to give us another try.
i want her back, but i dont know how,
im scared,
please, i need some advice!!!!!!!!
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Joined: Jan 2006
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Please read all MB concepts.
Snoop all you can to make sure there isn't an Affair going on. (It sounds like there is) phone records, mails, etc.
Why no sex for so long?
How old are you two?
Read about Emotional Needs. Do you think you are satisfying her EN?
If you can get any evidence of an Affair going on... EA (Emotional Affair) or even PA (Phisical Affair), please keep posting here for more accurate advise, and prepare (read) for Plan A
Welcome to MB. Be strong!
btw, a baby might not bring a couple together, actually, it usually brings a LOT of pressure and stress into the relationahip. Less time for each other, no SF...
d-Day- jan2006
Me 38, WH, 36
Children-8 and 10
status: slow, slow, recovery...
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I would suggest that you begin by reading everything that you can here...
I would also find the Emotional needs Questionnaire and print one for you GF and another for yourself...
Just my opinion but good sex does not equal staying in love...there's a lot more than that!
A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
Thomas Carlyle
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man Honestly my wife and i went though same thing but for only about a month or so and to come to find out she slept with her ex boyfriend. I could feel the distance and she would not touch me and if i tried to have sex with her or even touch her she would make some excue or something. Just so you can prepare yourself I knew there was something going on i would have put everything i own on the line to say she was or had slept with someone, but when you actully find out its the worst feeling ever so do what i did just pray about it and God will exucute his plan. ( I just found out about a week ago so Im going though alot right know and just want to tell you my story becasue yours sounded the same) I pray for you my friend and hope the best.
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Sounds like she feels guilty about something...I feel your pain I'm going thru it right now. MB is a great place to vent, get advice...just like what others are saying use this site to help you out.
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