I have started plan A and began to expose my wife's EA to her boss, his boss, friends, family after moving out some 3 weeks ago to give her space. I've now moved back in as I've been told that as we share ownership of the house I have every right to be there. WS says we can't carry on living under the same roof so is taking legal advice. I'm due to see a solicitor next week which should be before my WS gets a chance.

My WS says that I don't understand that she loves OP and nothing I can do will stop that. She won't move out because of the kids but she says she needs to be with him. She has flipped since I told her boss and his boss. I've told her I'm staying where I am unless I get kicked out by the court.

I'm wondering if I should break her phone so they can't keep texting one another. This will obviously increase since OP has been moved from his position.

WS has said that she has been honest with me from the beginning about her feelings and that I should just accept it. I have directed her to his site but she still thinks she is right.

How can I stop her addiction, she is ****** bent on taking the kids to see OP. If this happens I'm worried it will stop the kids thinking his is a rat and they may start to think he is ok.

No

but if the service is under your name
you can have the service disconnected

Pepperband,

How can I stop her addiction if I can't stop her seeing or speaking to him?

OM is heroin

you cannot stop her from heroin ...

but you can keep the kids away from Om and you can stop helping her financially