I have not posted here in a long time-I have filed divorce papers-my WH should receive them this week to sign.

He has not only had relationship with the OW this started with but has moved onto several other girls as well.

I have heard all the usual lines about never really loving me, settling when he married me, even that he could barely get his truck to drive toward our home after work at night-he just didnt want to come home here.

We work at the same company and I see every day at the office. When he comes in he always asks how I am doing, how my weekend was, if I am busy that day at work, etc... I have no desire to answer his questions. I usually just give him a one word answer and never talk to him unless I have to regarding our son, money or work- in fact I cant even look him in the eye-I just have no respect for him.

Is this common to feel this way? I feel so much happier and more at ease when I dont see him, speak to him or think about him and what he has done. Does that mean I am avoiding the issues that I should be trying to deal with??