I've come up with some ideas on how to contact the OMW, as I've only been able to contact OM's parents so far. First, I have to take some precautions that I hadn't thought of before.

Just heard on the news today of a murder-suicide committed by a husband to his wife & kids. People can get CRAZY over these types of situations, and I have to be very careful. My WW right now is definitely capable of anything, including an attempt on my very life. I'm sensing this from recalling how much she now hates her 1st lover that I discovered. She had long since broken it off by the time I found out, and during the initial confrontation she expressed extremely dark hatred for this guy, threatening to use her "connections" to "take care of him", and wished he were dead.

In light of that, and seeing just how much she's changed during my exposure, and on the advice of my parents who made me aware that I could be putting my life in danger, I have to take some preliminary steps before further rattling this hornet's nest.

All my Christian bro's & sis' here, please pray for me & my family.