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My wife refuses to accept anything
#1861737 04/19/07 11:30 AM
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I have exposed my wife's affair but she refuses to change the way she feels about this OP. I have told she will destroy the children if she keeps this affair going but all she says is that she has to want to change but she won't and I have to accept that. I said you can't help your emotions but you can help your actions, but is just falls on deaf ears.

Help what next is this the end?

Together 10 Years
Married 14 Febuary 04
DD 6 March 2007
DS8 & DS9
BS 38(me)
WS 39
Re: My wife refuses to accept anything
hopesandfears #1861738 04/19/07 12:07 PM
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Welcome to MB, you've come to the right place for help, and I'm sorry you're in this situation.

Nothing you say now will break up her A. Read the articles on this site about Plan A & B, which is what you should do to try to end the affair.

I pray God helps you and sees you through this.

FWH, BS (me), 43
BS, FWW, 42
DS 20, 13

PAs With W's Sister's Friend & Prostitute - SF Only (me), 1992-93
Married July 1994
Hit On W's Underage Sister & Close Friends, 1996-98
I Confessed Everything, Spring 1998
My D-Day, Jan. 2007
She Moved Out, Feb. 2007
Filed For D 4/18/07 For Legal Protection, Did Not Pursue

FWW Moved Back Home 08/05/07
Status: I'm Not Sure
(original thread of my sitch lost)
Re: My wife refuses to accept anything
SadPunk #1861739 04/19/07 12:31 PM
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No, it isn't the end. It is the start of a very rocky road that leads to your destiny, a destiny that very much depends on how you handle yourself during the journey. You Ww is the victim of a chemical overload that is providing her with a form of temporary insanity.

Get and read Surviving an Affair. You have found a good place for help and I am so sorry you had to find it. Read the just found out forum. Read Harley's free advice on this web site. At this time, an education on the subject of infidelity is your friend.

Larry

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