i am new to this site and i kinda feel stupid because i am here to ask for help with how to deal with my hubby because i cant tell him what i need in life or how i feel with out the fear of hurting him oh and did i forget to tell you he has a bad temper and likes to yell alot and blame me for everything i mean he might not be blameing me on perpuse but he makes it sound that way and to top it all off we took over custody of my cousin who is not 14 and a hand full in it own considering i am only 22 and my hubby 25 i guess i just dont know what to do any more i have no married friends and the ones i do have are like way older then me and tell me i am stupid for getting married at 18 i should have waited and honistly i know i should have waited to see if he really was the guy for me and now 4 years down the road i find myself asking if i am really happy when i know i am not. i do love my hubby but i am not sure if it is the way a wife loves a husbaned or just as a friend i mean i dont want to hurt him in any way but i am not happy with him like when he talls me he just takes care or two childeren and i dint pull my weight but i do i wirk 40 hours a week i keep a spotless house cook dinners hes does the banking and goes to work and he says he needs help and the i am just a child i know all this is all just a big bunch of cornfusing mess i am just trying to get it all out at once sorry bout that i have a little pent up anger well please leave your advice i need it thax much

Dayzie