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I started Plan B a week ago and I am going crazy. I don't know what I am supposed to expect. Can anyone give me some personal experiences? How long before you saw any changes? I feel like he might be enjoying the fact that he is not having to deal with me. Is that normal? I feel like I am giving the OW an advantage. I want to call him so bad but I know I can't.
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I am feeling the same although the A is over, he pain and the H are here. Had a struggle with plan B and couldn't find any relief. From what I read plan b could be up to 2 years, but most affairs do not last long when they are exposed to the realities of life meaning when he realizes that he has problems with that realtionship, then he will come back and meet your requirements. I understand the theory, but am having trouble with working through it.
Two thoughts for you:
1. Post on the general message board because not many people read this one
2.read Suvivng an affair by Harley
good luck!
me BW- 29
WH- 29
2kids- 2&5
married 10 years
"Love is the gift of self. It means emptying oneslf to reach out to others. In a certain sense, it means forgettung oneself for the good of others."
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