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I've talked to the ow's husband and he doesn't know everything about the 3 month affair his wife had with my husband. He thinks it was just flirting and kisses. His wife doesn't love him because she was willing to leave him for my husband, but that didn't work out because my husband refuses to leave me for her.
At the same time, I want to tell him so she can suffer.

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I've talked to the ow's husband and he doesn't know everything about the 3 month affair his wife had with my husband. He thinks it was just flirting and kisses. His wife doesn't love him because she was willing to leave him for my husband, but that didn't work out because my husband refuses to leave me for her.
At the same time, I want to tell him so she can suffer


What proof do you have? If you have proof (letters, cards, photos, hubby's confession, etc) then by all means tell him. But it sounds as if he doesn't want to hear the truth so without proof it will probably fall on deaf ears. BUT, yes should tell him, not to make OW suffer (if that happens then she brought this onto herself) but instead so that he may know the truth about the affair and make his own, informed mind up about his marriage and cheating wife.

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I'm afraid of telling her husband because he made a threat to hunt my husband down and to kill him.

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Why did he make that threat when he didn't believe that anything happened short of "harmless" kissing and flirting?


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