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Plan B question
#1864634 04/24/07 02:03 PM
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Hey all-As some of you may know, my WH filed a LSA and papers have been signed-He has come back from overseas, collected his things and is now back. We have not talked in quite some time. Eventhough LSA papers have been signed and I am moving on w/ my life, I am not sure if there is any hope for us. To be quite honest, I think we are done. How long does one stay in Plan B? I know it may be different from sitch to sitch, but I was just curious. Unless he gets some major IC, he will never be able to commit to anyone. And noone knows how long he will he staying over there. In my mind, I consider us finished.

"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband." BS-38 (me) WH-34 0 kids Together 3 1/2 years Married almost one year before DDay WH EA 9/06 DDay 11/06 Plan A 1/07 WH asked for LSA 2/07 Plan B 03/07 LSA effective 3/07 H moved out 3/07
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"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband." BS-38 (me) WH-34 0 kids Together 3 1/2 years Married almost one year before DDay WH EA 9/06 DDay 11/06 Plan A 1/07 WH asked for LSA 2/07 Plan B 03/07 LSA effective 3/07 H moved out 3/07
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In Dr. Harleys book SAA he says you decide...upto 2 years...but I think that is from D-day...I'm sure someone will be along that knows better than I...but its totally up to you how long.

Marflow WH-49 Me-40 M-16 yrs DS-16 DS-12 D-Day 4/14/06 WH moved out 5/21/06
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short marriage, no kids.

If you want to move on, go ahead, but divorce first.

Are you hoping that he will get that counselling and come back?
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Lexxxy, he will need a miracle before he can really commit to someone-he has serious issues that will take years to overcome. I am moving on w/ my life but I am not ready to date yet. Still nurturing my wounds-

"If you want a good wife, then you have to be a good husband." BS-38 (me) WH-34 0 kids Together 3 1/2 years Married almost one year before DDay WH EA 9/06 DDay 11/06 Plan A 1/07 WH asked for LSA 2/07 Plan B 03/07 LSA effective 3/07 H moved out 3/07

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