Mimi, could you please check out SadMo's thread and give her advise on her situation? You truly understand how to do a good plan B and how easy it is to fall into the trap of breaking it or even being afraid to begin.
I think Sadmo is in a situation where a plan B is called for, but I'd really like her to get some additional advice. You may have more experience in this to offer her.

THANKS!