Ive been gone for months, but wanted to give an update on how things are going.......my new DS is now 7mo. old. My wife (2nd) and I get along amazingly.....love her to death. After 5yrs of
marriage I love her more than ever.

NOW......comes the part everyone that is usually a divorce e will run into eventually.

My daughter from my first marriage started a dance class and I had to go watch her perform. Unfortunately my wife could not attend because she had an appt. with my 7mo. old. Well my daughters mother (my EX wife) and my son were at the dance class and after the class was over I gave my daughter a hug and my son a hug. The kids mother starts gigglig/laughing lightly.......my son asks what is so funny mom? My EX then says......"I was just wondering if your father would give me a hug"? I politely said...."I dont know about that" and left it alone. She continued to smile and walk away to her car with my kids.

Anyhow, I know that didnt mean much, but I think it shows EXs eventually realize what they have done and reminisce about the past. I surely didnt want to give my EX (adulterous) a hug.......not only because it would be wrong to do in front of my children since Im remarried (sends wrong signal to them)....but she makes my skin crawl.

LOL......yall take care....Im sure I will visit again WAY down the line.

I'm hoping my WH wakes up someday too!

Thanks!

Good luck to you!

You are very welcome.

I know Im remarried and probably dont belong here, but occasionally I like to post comments and things that my EX wife says that might make those having affairs think about what might happen if they do continue in their adulterous ways. I want those who are about to ruin a family or marriage SEE from someone with a prior history of going thru adultery/divorce what they can look forward to.

Hurt, disappointment, regret.....that is all there is.

Take everyone and god bless.