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desperately seeking advice, my W had an affair with another W
#1869868 05/03/07 01:59 PM
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My W and I have married for 10 years. There had been A's on both sides. My A was 6 years ago and my wifes was about the same time frame. Recently, I found emails to another woman. The emails had information on her being bisexual and talked about divorce. When I confronted her on the emails she of course denied it all. It seems as if she has given up on our marriage. We don't have an intimate relationship unless she wants it. I'm so confused on what to do! I think she can only be satisfied by women, she told me she really enjoyed it. she tells me she wants to go counseling but it wont make a difference in expressing her feelings on her sexuality. She says it none of my business and tries to turn everything on me and I'm imagining it all! I feel as if I'm crazy!

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Re: desperately seeking advice, my W had an affair with another W
sbarlow224 #1869869 05/05/07 11:45 PM
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Wow. That happened to my old man. My mother left him for another woman. Unfortunately for him, they are still together and have been for about 10 years.

I'm on the downhill slope of my 2nd marriage, so you don't want advice from me. The fact that you both have had affairs is something you should think about.
Re: desperately seeking advice, my W had an affair with another W
sbarlow224 #1869870 05/09/07 05:59 PM
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So sorry to hear that and my prayers are with you. There are many people here who will be more than willing to help.

I just wanted to give you a link to another thread. It is similar to your sitch and though it may help.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...part=1&vc=1

good luck!

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