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Good for you about the Plastic Surgery.
You know I'm a BIG SUPPORTER...
Unlike the other men here, my H said: "If YOU FEEL your body is DEFORMED, then by all means, you must have the surgery."
He went in with me, though, for the consults which occurred AFTER RECOVERY. I encourage you to have your H go in...made the nurse anxious, though, when I bared all with my H standing right there..silly thing.. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />
My surgery was NECESSARY after losing sooo much weight....and I'm still not finished... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
H's been on a business trip and returning home soon..
I finished the pound cake..now working on the potato salad..
SPOILED RASCAL... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Last edited by mimi_here; 05/06/07 10:38 AM.
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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DIG:
You seemed to have been touched by the SPIRIT.
You've become quite an inspiration here.
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Thank you Mims!!! You made my day. I feel like I have been touched by the SPIRIT. I feel so much better. Since coming here I have learned one other thing. I was using food to numb because I wasn't getting my EN and now that I have started cutting back I have been turning to my H to get what I need instead of stuffing my feelings. I am so happy.
I feel you on the missing H thing too. I used to eat and eat when my H left for a business because I was so anxious and I didn't like feeling that way so I was use food to numb myself. It is such a bad habit and I am really working on changing it.
What you can do in the mean time is not beat yourself up and just remember it is only temperary and he will be back soon and you have all your friends from MB to talk your blues away until he returns.
Me (32) H (33) 3 DD's 9,8,2 1 DS 4 Married 4/19/99 According to Mrs. W I am now Delightful in GA. LOL
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LOL..
NO WAY, DIG...
I haven't been eating the POUND CAKE AND POTATO SALAD...
I made this FOOD FOR HIM..HIS FAVORITES...
MIMI..a WeightWatchers FANATIC... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Hey Mims that is what I have been using do you use the flex or the core plan? I love the flex because I can eat the food I like without my catagorizing it as good or bad. That helps me so much. I have lost ten lbs in just two weeks. I am so proud of myself.
I haven't been eating the POUND CAKE AND POTATO SALAD...
I made this FOOD FOR HIM..HIS FAVORITES...
My Bad.LOL I thought you meant you were eating it. I guess I must have thought that because it is just what I use to do in your Sitch. There I go again projecting. Bad Maryam Bad Maryam <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
That is so sweet of you. I am sure he will appreciate your efforts. As well as enjoy the lucious feast you are preparing him.
Me (32) H (33) 3 DD's 9,8,2 1 DS 4 Married 4/19/99 According to Mrs. W I am now Delightful in GA. LOL
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DIG:
I blasted you about the Plastic Surgery on your other thread (Mimi's Other Men comment??)
But your going the right way now. Plastic Surgery can be just the trick to continue the process.
Keep hanging around.
LG
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Why thank you LG. That is so sweet of you. I really appreciate the support.
That was a very good reply you gave BB BTW. Larry as well.
Also Larry and Beleiver I got those books you suggested they should be here soon. Also I haven't heard anything from my mom in a while so I am happy. I call her Typhoid Mary. She only call with death and destruction. It's like when she calls I ask her who is sick or dying. She only calls with bad news and I hate to talk to her often.
Me (32) H (33) 3 DD's 9,8,2 1 DS 4 Married 4/19/99 According to Mrs. W I am now Delightful in GA. LOL
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