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Re: Emotional affair with H's brother getting out of hand??
Just Learning #1872344 05/09/07 05:48 AM
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JL she is in her early fourty's and her kids are almost grown and her H is in his late fourty's.

Your post was good but I have to say this. I don't want to seem like I am coming off the wrong way but,when you said this

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I don't know how old you are nor your H, but I am thinking you are not very old, perhaps early 30's.

It pressed a button of mine.

JL I have to say I am 30 do I seem like I am that immature? They have little kids that sound like adults because they have life threatening diseases and then they have people that are way up in their years that are as immature as kids. Your age doesn't dictate how mature you are. Growing older is mandatory, Growing up is optional.

Me (32)
H (33)
3 DD's 9,8,2
1 DS 4
Married 4/19/99


According to Mrs. W I am now Delightful in GA. LOL \:\)
Re: Emotional affair with H's brother getting out of hand??
DIG #1872345 05/09/07 11:23 AM
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DIG,

You are right of course. I wasn't casting aspersions on 30's. But, often people are not as mature as they will be later in life, especially after they have faced some of the more difficult things life can throw at them.

Frankly, in her early 40's makes her pretty young to me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

And yes maturity is not age driven, but it is life driven.

God Bless,

JL
Re: Emotional affair with H's brother getting out of hand??
Just Learning #1872346 05/09/07 11:32 AM
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I am back. If you are still here, let me know, there are a few things I think I can detail for you that might help. In addition, pay close attention to what JL has said in his last few posts. What he reveals is extremely important. If you want to get out of your mess, there is a way.

Let me know if you are still here and in listen mode.

Larry
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