(((Carn)))

Hey how are you doing? Thinking about you!!! I know how hard these irksome sad times are like. Plain overwhelming.

You know, yesterday I was reflecting on my life, of course my xh came to mind. Recalled that guy, had 9 accounted for affairs, in the span of my 22 yrs of marriage drudgery.

I just am counting my blessings again, am filled with deepest gratitude and deepest appreciation for Steve Harley's competency& support in helping me, get the ball rolling, resolve& restore order back into my life, during that difficult painful time.

Want to encourage you, remind you, you deserve to be treated with...<<<<< dignity& respect>>>>>... It's easy to loose our focus when we are grieving/deeply hurting. We start fault finding our selves. When in fact, these types of people seriously require professional care, way beyond what a normal spouse& family members can provide...

I am grateful to be distanced from all of that, but I haven't forgotten the---< emotional toll---> it's takes on one's, well being in the immediate situation. Dis-heartening!!!

Takes awhile to detach, reclaim our dignity,self respect& energy back...

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