you may get better advice, if you give a bit more details about what is going on. Have you tried counseling? i know that when I was feeling like this, I suggested counseling for my husband. i didn't go with him, because I felt it had to do with his issues with his family that were affecting our marriage. Well, it worked. he is more open about things. had his therapist suggested I attend, then i would have. Put your marriage in the hands of God. If it's meant to be, then it will fall into place. Of course if children are involved, the situation changes. But for their sake, it's important to find every avenue to not argue in front of them, even if it's passive agression. Children are so perceptive, they notice when something is not right. If money is the issue on theraoy, seek religious advice from the church. They are always most likely free. Even, if it's just you going at first. that may give you strength to face what is to come. i've been there. i know what's it's like to have your world turned upside down and wonder why it's happening, or if it's something you did. These are just hurdles that can make a marriage stronger when worked out. If he needs space to think. Let him have it. Meanwhile, you can work on your needs, such as getting a hobby, jogginh to relieve frustration, getting a manicure and pedicure. Show him that you too have a life with meaning and are worth so much. I'm sorry you are going through this. When worked out it will make you both appreciate what you have. If it doesn't because there is that possibility, remember that God has a plan for you both.
