WH went to go visit his uncle for the weekend. So I hacked everything in the house. Turns out he is listed on match.com and eharmony.com as a divorced man. Fancy that. So I copied the link and emailed it the OW. I just cant wait. I am laughing my buns off. Will sign the divorce papers tomorrow, since I have a serial cheater on my hands who I cant trust to tell me the time of day.

Who thought that exposure could actually lift my spirits.

ouch...

Very common. After all the A is NOT based on trust and loyalty.

Those words are much harder to enforce or pretend to have while having an A.

That is a key and a tool you can use.

Expect him NOT to visit his uncle. Many a WS will advertise while having an A. Their sick and greedy minds want to keep the A adrenaline coming. The stupid OPs think they are the only one? Ha!

At one point, I e-mailed the Ws and asked if she knew 'which number she was'. LOL!!! I informed her it c/b anywares between 5 - 15. Of course I didn't know for sure but I threw it out there anyway. It made her furious. Then I informed her well at the very least she couldn't be a one nor the best. LOL!!!

Then I told the WS that I refused to be part of a harem or number in his collection. I then said, I withdraw from a game I did not consent to play. I let him stew on those thoughts for a while. He freaked. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> That was good.... for me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

L.

Well she responded:)

"Unbelievable. Maybe he will find somebody that way...I don't know.

Thanks for letting me know. "

Nice and civil huh?

Hope she fries him

lol

ROFLMAO Now THAT is just toooooo funny. Thanks for sharing.

Larry

**snort** <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Be careful here...the temporary life you get from his pain and embarassment won't sustain you. You'll need to be ready for an expected "down" in a few days. That is normal by the way.

LM

Oh I know lemon, A marriage of 20 years doesnt end quietly with relieved feelings. I have been on the floor crying my eyes out. But this isnt the man I loved, whatever he turned into is not anything I need or want. I have handed this one over to God since I have not been able to change his heart. The first million times he lied to me, it ripped out my heart, now when I find his lies it only pokes at the scar tissue that used to be the love I had for him. I am pretty sure I dont love him, I know that I cant live with him. I am done.

I don't want you to think that I am not supporting your "lift" however. I am sure you have died a thousand deaths with this marriage and affairs.

You sound like a woman who is "done"...

Best of luck in your new life. You have to remember how good things WILL be in your new life.

LM

Unfortunately it's likely not going to happen, based on my experience. My FWW had a very strong suspicion that the OM was carrying on an A with at least one other W at the same time he was having an A with her. And her suspicion turned out to be true. And he was engaged to someone else at the time to boot. Yet that wasn't enough to stop her. Her A stopped when the OM got tired of her.

Persons caught up in As only care about the "good" feeling they're getting while the fantasy is going on. Maybe your exposure might be enough to break this particular fantasy. But quite likely it isn't.