I really need your support right now.
My daughter and a friend went to my house to get the rest of my stuff today. WS called the cops and reported my daughter as breaking and entering and theft, even though she had a key, and he knew she was coming.
The OW intercepted the package I sent her husband containing the IM cybersex session they had, and she immediately called WS to cry about it. He's more angry about being exposed than anything else, and is striking out at everyone, even my daughter.
All of this was because I have refused contact with him for the past three weeks. He's worried about his reputation...did I mention he's a retired cop?
I'm not going to cave in to his demands for contact but I could really use some encouragement from you guys.
Thank you.

Send the package to OWH's job. Send it via Federal Express, deliverable only to the named person, and that he has to sign for it.

That costs a little more, but works nicely.

Thank so much. I'll try to find out where he works and do that.

I am a retired cop also. Contact the internal affairs department immediately. Even though he is retired, they will put him on notice about his activities. Don't fret about the call to the cops... it will mean nothing. If your daughter had your permission to enter your home... she could have set up a tent in the living room and told your wife to f-off and no law would be broken.
DO NOT BE INTIMIDATED BY THESE FOOLS.

Thank you, and I appreciate your support but just so we are on the same page...I AM the wife. It was my husband who called the cops.

Yeah, I know you are the wife... sorry for the mis speak there....
The reason I told you to call IA is that his calling the police when he is aware that no crime was committed is an abuse of power in my opinion...and he will try and use his status as an ex cop to his advantage. Put him on notice that this will NEVER be acceptable to you. As much as people think that an ex cop or cop has an advantage in matters like this.... if you call their bluffs you will soon find out that they are at a distinct disadvantage as most departments will handle these matters swiftly to avoid the appearance of inpropriety. If you do not want to call IA call the commanding officer for the precinct that you reside in... if it is a small town, call the chief of police or mayors office. Take no crapp over this... you don't deserve it... being harmed by a WS is enough... you do not have to deal with this stuff too.

He is a retired Federal Marshal...I just call the District office for my state?

even better...they WILL NOT tolerate this stuff.

http://www.usmarshals.gov/contacts/districts.html