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I have exposed my WH affair to his boss and family but I need to know how I go about getting intouch with the OPS as i have no info on him. If I don't get this info to him what then are my chances of having the affair end.
My WH boss is letting him go today and the OW is being suspended, but I want all of this out in the open for her kids and husband.
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Do you know OW's name? Phone number? You could do a google search and see what you come up with...
call, write a letter, anything! A meeting!
A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
Thomas Carlyle
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LOITC,
Can you tell me more about the response from the employer? Why did they let WH go and suspend OW? I have a real need to know why they took this action for something going on in my situation.
Also, look on the internet, there many sources Intelus.com, anywho.com, whitepages.com, others that can help you locate someone by address, name, number, et al.
If you know the address send a certified letter that they (the OWH) has to sign for in order to recieve with all the gory details and your phone number in order for him to reach you.
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left, call the OW's house or even go over there. There are many ways to find the OWH. You are right that he has to be told.
Great job on exposure!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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If you know the address send a certified letter that they (the OWH) has to sign for in order to recieve with all the gory details and your phone number in order for him to reach you. if you take this step, don't let anyone know it's coming.. just send it..
Simul Justus Et Peccator
“Righteous and at the same time a sinner.”
(Martin Luther)
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Forget about WH boss they caved in said they both agreed to have no contact at work, his boss told him he should take the higher road and go back to the union hall for another job now that everyone knows but he said he wouldn't leave unless they fired him. To make matters worse he is working as a carpenter in a low income housing facility and OW lives there with her kids and husband. My WH doesn't even care that the husband is right there.
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To make matters worse he is working as a carpenter in a low income housing facility and OW lives there with her kids and husband. My WH doesn't even care that the husband is right there. All you have to do is drive right over there and knock on the door and tell the OWs H. REAL EASY.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Go there?
Uh, during daylight hours.
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