I have not seen Fatal Attraction. but get the point with the
rabbit. When she came to get her stuff last week she asked if she could go in my house. I told her normally I would say yes...but your key is no longer any good, I told her I changed the locks...silence..

I can tell if it is an outside call, but many of my friends, family, kids and co-workers use the direct extension method. I also deal with a lot of people out of town and give my direct number to them.. It is complicated for them to go through our operators.

I am short with her, I just hate being really mean to anyone. I think the one thing that really hurt her was when I told her the only difference between her and a Wh0re downtown was that a wh0re downtown will at least tell you the truth......she was devestated, I told her that she made
a huge mistake by taking my kindness as a weakness.

her loss

[color:"red"] Here [/color] you go.

AGG

WHAT ?

agg's link. click on "here" and it will give you the definition of what a bunny boiler is from the movie fatal attraction.

thanks agg... it is all coming back to me now...

one of my exes ho's could have been a bunny boiler. she is the ONLY one of his ho's i told off because she was basically stalking my children at school! that is another thread sometime, but she did get a phone call from me.
she still lives in town here. it has been over 2 years since my ex was with her. i still treat her with disdain. i caught her talking to my son in the hockey locker room this past season (they are just little kids so we moms go in and help them change, etc) and i told her in no uncertain terms to stay away from my children.

bunny boilers, ya gotta love em.

mlhb

so what did AGG mean by the here we go?

I meant click here: http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/Bunny_boiler

got it, I expect her to call tonight and try and tell me something, I will not answer the phone, Here lately she has not been leaving voice messages.
The vacation she had planned with old guy was to be next week......

I wonder if they are still going to go...

I'm thinking a harrassment complaint and/or restraining order is about due.

Next time you have the misfortune to hear her voice, TELL her you are going to make a police report, and then do it.

If she leaves you harrassing voice mails, save them - record them for evidence.

File a police report for harrassment. Usually something like that will earn her a visit from the local constabulary. If that's not enough to send the message, do what you need to do to get a restraining order.

IMO the constant calls at work could cause you problems with your employer - you don't need further trouble.

I do believe that you can block calls on your phone too - many phone companies have a service called, "Call screen" - if she calls from certain numbers, you can block the number and they get a message that you aren't taking calls right now or something like that.

People like that are dangerous. Who knows.. OM may have tried to dump her too - and with his M at risk... oy vey!

Going back through the thread you claimed to have exposed the OM's A with GF to the OMW - did you in fact do this? Methinks not. While OMW deserves to know, I'd almost be afraid of what she might do to you if you did. Slashed tires etc...

And if she does get violent, a restraining order can be enforced if she defies it - but she can still do harm - I'd watch my back if I were you.

Scary that there are people like that out there.

Please tell me that after all this, you don't still think you could forgive and forget and pursue a relationship with this woman?

I'd keep a close eye on your kids too... :::shudder:::

Never underestimate the power of a whacko.

JinGA

YES I am 100% sure the OMW got the emails they typed between them. I am sure of it! What will happen in their marriage I do not know I have not talked to her. I only know her name.

Just last Friday the group they all hang out with was out in town together again.. He was there I saw them. Like I said I left as soon as I saw them. I walked right by her and did not speak, just got the evil eyes..and a nasty phone call later. This was last friday night.

Thats why she called last night to tell me she was out with the group at a b-day party. No calls at work today or so far tonight........

she called to wish me happy fathers day

and you answered the phone because????

mlhb

my children did while I was outside working and said Daddy telephone, when I said hello she said I want to wish you a happy fathers day, She then told me about teh race she was in. I just said i was proud of you for doing so well and thanks for wishing me a Happy Fathers day.

Even the childrens mother did not call to do that, I still buy a gift for the mother a small one, and let the girls give to to their mom on Valentines, Mothers Day, her Birthday and Christmas. The gifts are small typically 10 to 20 bucks. These are from the kids.

I have yet to recieve a Fathers day card, christmas card, b-day card or anything else. my children get in the cry and cry and say mommy will not give us money to buy you anything and I refuse to do the same.

now back to the girl.. I thought it was nice that she done that, I told her good bye and she said tell ? and ? I love them. I said sure and was off the phone. 2 minutes on hte phone. I did not ask about her weekend, job or anyhting else.

she plays you like a fine tuned fiddle my friend. she knows how to pull at your heart strings.... call him for father's day.

i have to go back into hiding from this thread, you still see a glimmer, and that is very sad.

mlhb

When the kids answered the phone and handed it to you, the easiest thing would have been to take the receiver and hang it up without listening.

Steve - you are a glutton for punishment. You keep stringing her along and she's going to keep on bugging you.

She can't keep bugging you if you will NOT entertain her. If you don't answer or hang up the moment you hear her voice without listening or responding, her game will get boring and she'll move on.

The longer you keep entertaining her, the longer she's going to keep on stringing you along.

Personally I think you're enjoying it.

JinGA

Ya think?

Just like why kids act up... any attention is better than no attention, right?

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JinGA

One of the things I learned in a parenting class was that you often have to ignore undesired behaviors to get them to end. Children's inappropriate behaviors that are dangerous or destructive should be attended. Their behaviors that are annoying or embarrassing should be ignore. By attending her behaviors - by acknowledging her attempts to stay in contact you - you are reinforcing them. And, she will continue the behaviors which get your attention. You speak to her on the phone - you reinforce the behavior.

Methinks thou hast learned little from your MB experience.

Hey, I know it is fun to watch her squirm and suffer. But really man, get a life!

Cut the idiot off completely and live your life you and your kids. If you are able to do this someday you might meet a really nice decent woman who falls in love with you.

If you keep even speaking to her you are continuing the torment and game playing. But you can play the game if you want, go ahead. WAste your precious energy on talking to the witch. I'd be moving on and dating other women meeting some really nice ones. If I were you that is.

I had not heard from Girl in several days, She called last night. I let it go to voice mail. She said she heard that I had went out with girl and wanted to tell me she was happy for me. She did want me to call and answer a question. she said to please let her know if I kissed her goodnight.

She also was crying and said her daughter wanted to know why her and my daughter were not going to be sisters.

I have not talked to her. No calls yet... She said she would call on Sunday.....She has done that so far every Sunday....this seems to be the only thing she has told the truth about so far.

i just wonder what part of IGNORE HER AND DON'T LISTEN TO HER VOICEMAILS you do not understand?

mlhb