Hi there new to the forum and looking for some much needed advice to some unanwsered questions.
I'll make this short and to the point. In December 2006 I had found out that my wife of 3.5 years , now ex-wife was having an affair with her supervisor at work. I started to look into the length of the affair phone bills , card statements , etc. Gut feeling is what gave it away. Have been in this situation before with past relationships. She came home the night I knocked on his door , gave me the he is just a friend , I made a mistake , I'm sorry story. I tried for the next month to work on things I think she mite of to. I asked her to quit her job , and of course she didn't. Lies just kept piling up one on top another. She was given a trip to ST Thomas from her job which inculded her supervisor and not me. I begged her not to go but she did , said she desirved the trip because of her hard work on the job. I filed the week she came home , Feb 2. Four months later the divorce was final. I guess my question is the next day after the divorce she broke down and lost it , I mean really lost it crying , didn't want me to leave , I will love u forever , Love just don't go away , etc. Why now would she come to realize what is going on? And will she stay with this clown? She has been seeing him through the whole divorce process. She is still trying to keep it a secret were just friends that hang out? Even denies That he has been at the house after I seen them go in together! Just very confused I still love her , don't understand how people can be so??????????? If this post is alittle confusing , forgive me it's my very first. Any input would be greatly appreciated Thanks.
