Hi,

I'm currently separated from my WW and trying to implement plan B but not having much success as we still have financial affairs to sort out.

I phone her today as I was P***** wondering why we are in this situation if I've done nothing wrong and why she hasn't even bothered to consider our marriage.

After a number of LB's found out she still has feelings for me and has told OM that she feels guilty about what I have been left with.

I have told her that she must consider selling the house in she has no intention of resolving the marriage so I can move on.

I have told her that if OM is all he is cracked up to be he can find a home for you (he lives with his parents).She seems to think I will meet someone else. I've been out tonight at a local bar but can't seem to find anyone or for that matter interested in someone else.

Would it be wrong to have a relationship with someone else while in plan B its just so lonely on my own.

Chris
I will try..
Plan b is NO contact. Get an intermeadary and let him/her be the filter and do your talking everything go through the imtermeadary.

It will be real hard the first 2 weeks keep the phone handy get your support up and running... After the 2 weeks it seems to settle into a routibne and then gets better.

dating... simple question for you, is she comming back, do want to save your M? If you want to save your M and your WW has ties and appears to be of a type to return you hang tought. If you need help email me or IM jimmerwi42@yahoo.com I will give you my phone if you need that.

I am in B heading quickly for the big D. My WW isn't comming back that I know. So in my case yes I am looking to date, however if I though the least bit she was going to come back I would have waited, at least intil the time comes where I just didn't want it anymore...


Jim

Yes.

You don't sound like you are in plan B though. Your wife still likely has feelings for you. So what. You need to do what you NEED to do. You'll svae your marriage and empower yourself by doing YOUR plan, not trying to stronghold WW with threats and having another affair yourself.

The loneliness you feel is real...but you need to overcome that. Get a new hobby, start playing golf, train for a triathalon, learn a new language.

DO something out of your comfort zone.

LM



Lemonman, MD