hey all I dunno if some of the original members are here that remember me (orchid, pebs, and the likes)....but I am still alive and surviving. here is a little update: DV was final last july after 2 years of seperation....XH and OW married in november shortly after the DV....I could really care less....I am on the road to success...I graduate from the police academy in august myself (XH is steamed over that...haha a woman with power <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> ) and then I recieve my AS in Admin of justice in december. I am so excited and don't want to see school for awhile after this....DS is doing great he is so smart it's scary. I can't believe my baby is getting so big. He goes to dads six days out of the month spread over the month....per his fathers choice....OW can't handle a 3 year old it seems. I am glad I get him the majority of the time with my little man we do so much together and we share a love for pirates we have seen all 3 pirates of the carribean movies and been to disneyland twice and i know the ride by the back of my hand by now. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />
As for me I am seeing someone...a great guy who not only loves and respects me but he loves my son as well. He works for a race team and is on the racing circuit right now. I have never recieved as much support from a man as him. When I have a bad day at school he knows the words to say to get me back in focus.....and he cooks and get this ladies....he CLEANS! yeah imagine my shock. So things are going well I am going to see him soon for a week and he will be coming home for my graduation and after race season we have a big welcome home party planned for him and his best friend. So there it is in a nut shell I am alive and still kicking...*hugs* to all hope your doing great <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

sounds like things are going very well for you.
it is great to come out of divorce and land right on your feet.

living well is the BEST revenge.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

mlhb

Tell me about it I try not to giggle when I see XH and his tired and wary look....poor guy looks so worn out every time I see him. But such is life....hehe I am trying to get a position on a police force before I graduate....and I am heading to conneticut soon to see my love...so I feel like a chicken with my head cut off right now....but at least I am a happy chicken. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

sihw,

Glad to hear you are doing so well.It's great to have happy stories float through once in a while! And a BF that cleans to boot! Lucky!

Hope it all continues for ya! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

Beauty....hey girl....sorry it took so long to get back on here....I don't have much in the way of internet access anymore so i rarely get on and I just got back from Connetticut visiting my sweetie. I swear I could marry this man. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" /> we had a great visit i was there for my birthday so he took me out shopping and to dinner and a movie. It was nice and domestic just the way i like it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Kind of sucked coming back tho. I missed him alot and waking up the next morning and rolling over to put my arm around him and he wasn't there...i could of cried but he will be coming home soon. But man let me tell you I had the best flight attendants on the way home. He kept making us free drinks. I lost count after awhile and we were the 3 people who volunteered for the exit row....they gave us the row right behind first class <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />. And they gave me a whole package of these delta cookies that are soooo yummy. I am still getting over jet lag....and I have to work grave yard ****** tonight. joy <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

Your life is sounding great and like you've taken control to make it that way.

I'm a CT woman so I'm curious about where in CT you spent time. No need to name a town, but a region maybe. I'm in the N.E. corner very near some major attractions.

hey nams...I was in canaan....he used to work at the track out there....but alas we are no longer together....seems I fell for the elite of the elite liars.....yeah he could charms the pants off a priest. Seems he was with his ex the enitre time. I'm so lucky.....but I had warned him before that he wasn't irreplaceable. I ended up meeting a nice guy I have gone on a couple of dates with. kinda movin it slow but he's very nice and goal orientated. We shall see. My ex tried calling me to beg for forgivness....didn't work. He got told he had my trust once but had broken it....I could give him advice now....but I can't trust him again. He ended up making more stupid mistakes and the OW in her vengeful state got him fired. They left him on the side of the road in washington....go figure...but I am chillin....it doesn't really bother me. I am workin on some me things right now...my current sort of partner and I are both doing that. I am not so afraid of time anymore.

So how did the position with the Police force work out?

Are you serving and protecting?

I actually just had an interview with a department yesterday. I do believe I did well. We shall see it's in gods hands now. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Good to hear!

Best of luck to you!