Ongbasa,
Sorry to hear that you have been thrust into this arena.
I’m happy to welcome you to MB’rs, just the same.
You said: [color:"blue"] I need some guidance on a sticky situation. My husband just admitted to having an emotional affair and instead of repenting, he wants a divorce.[/color]
Most of them say this.
He’s not going to make the biggest mistake of his life and them come back singing that he’s a fresh turd steaming in the morning sun.
As mentioned previously, it’s right out of the script for a WS.
Do not be surprised if the A had more involved than just emotional aspects. Prepare yourself for this possibility.
Are you CERTAIN that the A has ended?
Employ your snooping techniques big time to verify this, just don’t let him catch you. Certainly don’t rub it in his face that you are doing it.
By the way, describing adultery or emotional A’s as “a sticky situation” is an understatement. It’s the most difficult issue that many people will face in their entire life time.
Read all of Harley’s free web postings at the web site entrance and become totally familiar with the MB program.
Buy books that he sells that will help you to understand all of this.
Read
worthatry's BS Quick Start Guide . (click on that link)
Keep posting about your situation on the same thread so that everyone can follow your situation and offer efficient support.
You said: [color:"blue"] I did not meet his emotional needs and now I'm asking for that chance[/color]
Ma’am, your going to have to make your own chance. If you sit around and wait for your H to allow you to call all the shots and agree to take control of the situation it will never happen.
Use the skills that you will learn here to become the leader in your M, take the reigns, and carve out your own future and the future of your M.
More background information about your situation will prove to be beneficial to us.
Stay strong and take care of your health! That’s really important.
Best wishes.