well the saga continues...spokes to some friends the other night...my friends husband used to work with my husband...they traveled alot together I mentioned to him that h and I were having problems....and I asked if he never noticed any inappropiate behavior with my h and other women...he stated he had. They travel together normally their trips would last anywhere from 2-3 weeks...he told me on a few occasions my husband would meet women in a bar or where ever they were at...and things would get out of hand and he would have to pull my husband off of these women and get him out of the bar...asked my husband about it all and of course he denies it stating friend is lying...friend was fired from his position 6 mos ago and this is just retaliation on his part...oh and friend has porn problems and he didnt act appropiately. I fell like my life is spinning slowly out of control...I do not know what to do at this point...please advise