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#1886869 06/04/07 05:23 PM
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Have there been any XW sightings lately?
Does she still attempt to throw you under the bus from time to time?

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Pep,

Yeah I have had a lot of periodic contact. She will first send me a few religious emails and when I reply thanking her for her prayers, it opens up to fairly long conversations via email amd IM messaging. She expresses her remorse often and I will continue to communicate with her until she invariably does a non-no....like a little white lie or blaming our D on my ex girlfriend(who I am dating again). She then disappears and pops up several weeks or months later. I have to admit I have PO'd her when I question her professed unhappiness with the fact that she should be in the happiest moments in her adult life. She chose her life, has a pile of money, drives a BMW, new house and can date any and all men available.

Methinks she doesn't want me, she just doesn't want anyone else to have me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Cymanca #1886871 06/04/07 05:39 PM
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You know

she is not "done" with your torture yet ... you know that, don'cha?

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She drives a new house? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

-ol' 2long

2long #1886873 06/04/07 05:48 PM
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2long,

If I have to come over there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Cymanca #1886874 06/04/07 05:52 PM
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Pep,

I know you are correct but that excitement I used to get when I saw her or talked to her is barely perceptible ....and probably will be there for life.

I had a lot of chances to R as you well know and I have resisted them all... and it just gets easier and easier.


Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Cymanca #1886875 06/06/07 08:57 PM
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I also must mention that I do have another love of my life. It may be inapropriate but here goes anyway....................LeBron James


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Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Cymanca #1886876 06/06/07 09:58 PM
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I also must mention that I do have another love of my life. It may be inapropriate but here goes anyway....................LeBron James


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Lebron James is better than Michael Jordan was at age 22. That man has some serious game.

Sorry, but I think the Cavs get cleaned up in 5. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

LM


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Lemon,

Just got out of a meeting. So good to hear from you.In the past I have gotten my clock cleaned betting on my Cleveland teams so I NEVER bet any game they participate in( Saves me a lot of money).

Remember the Cavs took them twice in the regular season. I hope LeBron comes to play.

How's the love life Lem?


Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Cymanca #1886878 06/07/07 08:01 AM
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Cymanca:

This person you were married to counsels people for a living? Did I get that right?

Larry

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Larry,

No, she is a Speech Pathologist.


Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
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Cymanca,

Just popped in to give you a big eastside high five! (I am chuckling to myself because when I was in HS, our girls school would root for your alma mater's teams). You and me both with regard to betting on our Cleveland teams! I was CRUSHED when the Buckeyes lost both Championships this last go around!

Go Cavs!!!!!

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Brit,

High five back to you! What really hurt for me was that all the hoops stars declared early for the NBA draft otherwise we would be seeing a mini-dynasty in Columbus.

We sure did appreciate having people of the female persuasion rooting for us.

I am jealous about missing the buzz and excitement that these NBA finals gives to Cleveland. I tried to buy some brokered tickets but they were so expensive I just couldn't justify it.In 97 I tried to get back for the World Series but a plane delay in Houston forced me to watch the game from a hotel room in Texas


Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Cymanca #1886882 06/07/07 09:36 AM
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Lakers = lost losers

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Pep,

THe fallacy of any team sport is to overpay one player and then permit same to call the shots. Kobe is a very talented player but if I was Dr Buss I would tell him that I am paying you $20-25 million(or whatever) and that gives me the power to say "Shut up and play ball. When I want you as a coach/general manager I will hire you to do that"


Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Cymanca #1886884 06/07/07 10:42 AM
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Kobe is an egotistical man

no doubt

I remember the "glory days" of the lakers ... we used to go to the games when Magic and kareem were playing .... it was incredible

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Pepperband #1886885 06/07/07 10:46 AM
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Don't blame Kobe. Blame the man that hired him and pays him. Sort of like bad boundaries in a marriage dontch'a think!


Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Cymanca #1886886 06/07/07 12:45 PM
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I am from Cleveland. Truthfully...most of us hate our teams. Indians...ok...CAVS..NEVER. The Q was always empty until Lebron came. Browns...blech...more people here like the Steelers.

Who else is from around here?


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