well it has been a year since the Caca hit the fan. things are starting to look up, finally found a roommate, started taking Swing dance lessons, and making new friends...

I think the holidays will be tough. just heard from my oldest step son, all the kids are doing fine he also said the Ex seems to be starting to stabilize and comming back to normal... I don't know what any of that means or if it mean anything but I am told she appears ok and fairly happy...


Jim

Hey, I thought you'd gotten married again, or something. Good to hear from you. Glad you got a roommate and things are looking good.

Happy Thanksgiving,

Your happiness and future are wished for in my prayers and is everyone else on here who fight the fight and survive one way or another.

SG

See Jim, you didn't need my shoulder..... u r doing fine. Just stop reading inbetween the lines..... there's NOTHING there.

If she is getting back to normal, be happy for the children. They need a stable mom.

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Sorry I haven't called. Gotz lots of visitors in town this weekend. Playing tour guide. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

take care,
L.

Believer,
I don't see me ever doing the Big M again. 3 was enough. I have no real faith in it, I may do a domestic partnership, i have more faith in contract law then the current no fault family law... , no fault my a$$! So I am dating, A lot.. In fact I am probably meeting and dating more woman then any time in my life truth be told... It is different, I cant seem to keep the ones I like and the ones I can keep I don't want go figure...

Sg, I am boycotting TG this year, to many triggers... so it is frozen pizza for me.

L,
By Dad used to be my sounding board, the person I went to for advice and counsel as a sounding board to figured things out with, he died a few years back, seems you win that prize.. Hope you don't mind... I don't trust people easily your like my dad you seem to always get me thinking clearly.

If she is starting to come back down to earth... I am glad for the Kids... but what happens then, I have read a lot about what happens when they finally see straight again...
and realize what they did and I wonder...

I always read into things, to may years in signals analysis... is comes second nature... My pastor asked what I would do if she came back, we spoke about it a few weeks back, I think I would keep on marching, now if there were midigating circumstances, mental illness, hormone issues ect (that would fall under in sickness or health ) That might change things I would have to think about that.

Jim