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The father of both children is said to be a married police officer. This woman's family says she "has no enemies". Who are they kidding? Full story here: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3085561Of course, the story downplays the fact that she has been the mistress of a married man for quite some time and was on her second OC with him. Her family only talks about what a wonderful person she was. Where were they when she was stealing from another family? What a Father' Day gift for that WH. Mulan
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I notice that they didn't interview the Police Officers BW for her side of the story. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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Did you notice how one article stated that he was married to another woman? Ummm...no. He was married to a woman and the missing woman was "another woman."
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Makes for Lots of "Suspects" IMHO
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I notice that they didn't interview the Police Officers BW for her side of the story I imagine that the WH and the BW are at the top of the suspect list. Since the WH is also a police officer, he probably knew to get an attorney and clam up until they are officially cleared (unless they are found to have done it). Mys
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These are all important points, and I agree that affairs are awful.
Of immediate concern to me is that this woman and her children are human beings, and they are in my prayers. I pray for her safe return to her son and for the safety of her unborn child.
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Since affairs almost always end, I suspect her married affair partner. Maybe things weren't so happy in affairland.
I wish I could hope she and her child are okay, but I'm afraid they aren't.
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"She didn't have any enemies, she never did anything wrong.."
Oh my, I guess having an affair with a married man and getting pregnant w/ his child is "nothing wrong".
I suspect foul play, either the Wayward H or the betrayed W may have had a hand in this I am afraid. I hope not and hope that she and the unborn child are alive, but somehow think this will have a sad ending and may be tied to someone's selfishness in the form of an affair.
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Here is another link. http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,283874,00.html Please copy and paste the link
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the two year old that was in the house told police that mommy was crying and mommy was in the rug
bleach was poured on the floor in the bedroom too.
this will not have a good outcome.
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I saw another report which said that the cop and his wife were divorcing, and that his wife knew he had two OCs with this missing woman. It's been well publicized that the two-year-old keeps saying "Mommy's in the rug" and I have to wonder what else he has said that has not been made public.
Oh, and the WH cop was shown helping in the search.
I guess the real interest for me, and the reason why I posted it here, was the way the missing woman's family reacted to this. They knew what was going on with her and this married man and their *two* OCs but are doing nothing but praising her for being such a wonderful person.
I understand family loyalty, but it doesn't look like one of them disapproved of her behaviour and I'll be surprised if it turns out they did.
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No matter who she was, OW or not, this is incredibly sad. It is POSSIBLE she was the victim of a random crime. Usually though these cases involved someone they knew. Her poor little boy saw it all... that just breaks my heart.
We have to remember that bottom line, she is a human being. She has a son, a mom, and a sister that are facing never seeing her alive again. Not too mention what might have happened to her unborn child. The MM is just as much to blame for the A, he apparently kept going back... she might have been a nice person, maybe she was very naive.
It is something to think about though... sometimes affairs can lead to horrible "crimes of passion".
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well, I strongly disapprove of infidelity and possibly would have made the same statements... I would not take that opportunity to trash a family member or say anything that could be atken as negative. They most likely gave the police some additional information.
I would venture a guess that the BW or the cop are not involved... that it is most likely a jilted BF that is upset over the paternity of the child. Speculation to be sure...but the pattern would fit.
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Could be a random crime, but I doubt it.
Seems more like a crime of passion - maybe an argument.....
Anyone who had planned it would have been sure the 2 year old wasn't there to witness things.
Sorry, but the cop is looking like a good suspect to me. We already know he is selfish - a wife, girlfriend, and almost 4 kids, and not even divorced. I'll be very surprised if it isn't him.
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Laci Peterson scenario all over again. I would not be surprised to find out married WH cop has ANOTHER woman in the background.
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See, my thinking that it is not the cop is more practical than anything. He knows he would be an immediate suspect and the crime was too sloppy. So unless he is a complete dunce, I don't think he did it. A cop would know how to kill someone without the obvious mistakes this killer made.
No matter who did this, if in fact she has passed on, is a horrible human being and I hope they are caght and prosecuted.
I feel most sorry for the unborn baby here though. It did nothing wrong here.
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I'm so depressed today... so much sadness in the news. Near the headline for the story we are discussing, an 11 year old boy killed by bear during the night while camping with family. The bear just pulled him from the tent. Then, six people killed by drag racing crash. I came away from reading the news with a bad stomach ache.
I need some xanax now... Geesh.
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But the guy IS a complete dunce. He has a wife and 2 kids and a girlfriend with an OC and one on the way. And he and his wife just split up in February, so it seems the marriage made it through the first OC.
But then here comes the second OC. Kind of hard to explain to the wife. I think he probably did it in a fit of anger.
It will be interesting to see what happens. Sadly I think the woman is dead - people don't leave home "in a rug".
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We had a similar case near my home town about two years ago. Amanda Jones was about 8 1/2 months pregnant when she disappeared. She was last seen after meeting her boyfriend at the local fairgrounds for a horse show. She never returned to her parents home to pick up her 4 year old daughter and her car was found abandoned. They never found Amanda Jones' body. Here is a link to the story. Amanda Jones' Story I think I like the married cop for this too. He had everything to gain by her death.
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oh, don't get me wrong... I think a cop is at least as likely (and maybe more so) to kill someone, I just think they would be more careful in how its done. the fact that the case you sited is not cleared two years down the road would lead me to believe the same as you... proving it is another story.
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