J-man,

A very good friend of mine had a wife who turned [censored] or at least finally admitted it, and THEY HAD TWO TEENAGE CHILDREN!!

They divorced maybe 8 years ago. He soon after remarried.

AND SHE, AFTER HER [censored] ERA, IS NOW MARRIED TO A VERY NICE MAN!!

And everyone gets along famously!


""and most of that time she either laughed or harassed me to hurry up and get my [censored] out to the kitchen table ""

Dude, this does not bode well for you or any reconsiliation in the near future. She sounds like a vindictive BULL DIKE embracing her new life style!!

Hey, she is out of the closet, and feeling liberated!

Let her go/kick her out!!

""Dad, mom is a lesbian, have you not figured that out yet? "" Out of the mouths of babes!! How long had she known??

AND GET A GOOD ATTORNEY!!

kirk

and protect your children from the harm that lifestyle can visit on them... especially from their mother!

Thanks for all the help from everyone here. In the end, I have been talking to 2 psychiatrist about my wifes behavior, one online, one working here at my place of employment. Both of their diagnosis: Textbook Bi-Polar. She refuses any treatment, counseling or medication. She is destroying my life and my very soul and spirit day by day, and she seems to enjoy it in a very sadistic manner. This is the end.

I filed petition for dissolution of marriage on my wife on Monday of last week. The entire process here takes a little over 60 days if everything is agreed on by both parties, including asset divisions and custody/support. We have a full agreement drafted and so far no one has backed out, although she has give me much grief. She is textbook classic bi-polar, refuses any meds or counseling, and although we are legally separated, we still share the same house. I had to actually find her homes for sale/rent to look at. I spent the entire weekend doing this while she sat on her butt and insisted there are no properties available in the area. I went with her yesterday and had her shown 13 different houses, and she has agreed to take one of 2 of the ones she liked. This morning, she is so nice and wants to be best friends, tonight she may try to kill me with a kitchen knife. There is no hope for reconciliation, I just want her out of my house and life ASAP. God forgive me that I could not do more or continue to take this senseless abuse.

He will. And no you do not have to NOR need to take this any longer. Leave your WW to God and his amazing work. Protect you and children at all costs from exposure to her madness and sickness.

Journeyer

You fought a good fight. Its difficult to prevail against entitlement coupled with an emotional disorder.

Your kids learned how a man can deal with terrible and unfair circumstances with dignity and righteousness.

Thats great gain from a bad situation.

Please don't run to the arms of your online female friend, J. You're in no way ready for a healthy relationship.

All blessings

Journeyer,

I'm sorry to hear about your sitch. I too told my attorney today to go ahead and file our pleadings tomorrow with the court, and my wife will be served either the end of this week, or the beginning of next week, at her place of employment where the affair started and was allowed to continue.

Sometimes we have to move on. I do know that if you allow yourself to, God will help you grow through these times, and come out of them even stronger than before.

Best of luck to you,

Chocolateeyes