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AND HE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR!!!!!

Someone posted this story awile ago, but I couldn't find it. He claimed his wife shot their 3 children, and herself, and only wounded him. They were on their way to a vacation and his wife was looking forward to some together time.

Meanwhile he apparently was trying to figure a way to be with his lover. Talk about selfish. Anyway, today he is in the slammer.

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It never ends....

Last week-end in my small town a BH shot the OM (22) and his father when they came with his WW (33) to the BH and WW's house. Details aren't clear on what really happened, but the WW claimed she and BH had been separated since early spring (March-April?) and she didn't know BH was there because his car was in the garage-although her 3-year-old was in the house. The dad and OM were both shot in the head. The dad died. BH claimed they were banging on the door. According to one of th articles I read, OM's grandma said OM called his father to go with them because OM probably had been drinking.

Then, yesterday I read an article about a lawyer locally who was having an A with a cop when she testified at his child custody hearing that her OM was never abusive. So, he got more time with his kids. It was when she filed a RO on her OM that she lost her license to practice law.

Awful....


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I guess we BS's have much to be thankful for. At least our WS's didn't kill us and our children.

I've been interested in this case since I saw it here. I forget who posted it, but they live close to where the family was found.

Then I was reading about what the wife's family and friends said about them having a perfect marriage and family, that she had been looking forward to some reconnecting time with her husband, that she had been excited and packing all week.

Hubby claimed that he told his wife he was having an affair and she shot him, and then their children (mulitple times each) and then herself.

That brought back my D-day, and it just didn't ring true, the husband being wounded and her and the kids dead.

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This is a link to a story, though it does not mention either of them having an affair. That will probably come out later. There is a picture of them, though, and this was a beautiful family.
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http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,286394,00.html


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The story I read today said he claimed that when he admitted an affair, his wife started shooting. And he was arrested right before the funeral for his family.

I'm sure the details will come out. I'm getting cynical, because after reading about how everyone thought they were a perfect family, I starting thinking affair. YUCK.

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From the same website, I saw this:
Breaking News >> WHBC Radio: Bobby Cutts Jr. Confesses to Killing Jessie Davis, Unborn Child, Leading Cops to Burial Spot

But I don't see it anywhere else. Can anyone confirm?

So much heartbreak. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />


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Oh, you are RIGHT!!!! That is their breaking news banner, and more will come in a couple of minutes. I have been waiting to see that one. I really thought he did it.

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I googled the radio station and they have nothing on their site yet. Here is the link to the story on Fox.

www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,286404,00.html


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UNFORTUNATELY: AN END!!!


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News conference at 6:00PM - I think they have him - it is on television too.

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Last night you were telling me about the wherifones. I was wanting to know if you knew if they made any kind of noise when the phone is being located or when the battery is going dead. I will have to put it in his truck and obviously can't have it making noises.

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I hate this, I hate stories like this, I wish there was something I could do to make the world a better place, a safer place for little ones. OMG what that poor little boy may have seen.

A group I'm in recently finished Beth Moore's study of Daniel.
-"Chapter 11, There's a Judge in Heaven"


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Jessie Davis's body has been recovered from a lake. Her married OM and father of her son and unborn daughter is under arrest for double murder.
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Rember the Stewart case in Boston where hie also killed his pregnant wife after their lasmaz class, and blamed it on a black guy, had the whole city of Boston polerized because he became infactuated with a co-worker.

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These guys are soooooo arrogant, thinking they will get away with these crimes.

The Illinois mom HATED guns, and was happy to go on vacation. Her husband thought he could get rid of the whole family and be free, and no one would know any better.

The cop, in his interviews, talked on and on about HIMSELF. HE was losing weight, HE couldn't eat, HE couldn't sleep, HE usually could make people laugh.

I know they are innocent until proven guilty, but just happy they will both be standing trial.


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