I don't get a lot of your news over here. If it's not on Al Jazeera, I'll likely miss it.

Ahhh, reverse psychology. Impressive theory.

Lovely.

MTA: Wait, you're serious right?

Sorry piojitos, but that is the reason why most of them fail because they are to close the job and crimes like these are just another day to them so they THINK they know how to work the crime but obvious they are not..

Look how many times the perp will represent himself in court only to be brought down by their own arrogance... they, being so smarter than the rest of us... they believe so highly in themselves that they conviced themselves that they are not only creable but , just listen Cutts interview with a reporter on his wife,,,, we were separated and things just happened when we were sep.... like the birth of his 1st child with Jessie, and just way his voice was kind of forced to sound sad and heartbroken........

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how many times??? this is exceptionally rare.
and for your information, a murderer that knows what he is doing is pretty likely to get away with a crime. MOTIVE is what gets most people caught. Even with all the great forensics that are available today... only about 64% of murders are ever cleared. Pretty low number for a crime that more likely than not has a motive. Also, murder has a pretty high false conviction rate too...not as high as a crime like rape...but pretty darn high. And like we have seen with the OJ case... some really obvious people get away with murder too.
But to your point... a person representing themselves in a murder case is very, very rare. I have probably been part of over 50 murder cases in one way or another and have never seen a person even attempt to rep themself.

AND..

His "supportive" wife who knew about the "relationship" with Jessie just moved out in FEBRUARY..with no imminent plans of DIVORCING him...

To be quite honest, this might be another reason it is a good idea to fully expose the affair.

Maybe these people will think twice about hurting someone when everyone knows that they are linked to this person. It reminds me of the Laci Peterson case. What if she "knew" about Amber Fry and chose to not "air that dirty laundry"? If everyone KNEW...ole Scott might have been reluctant to do what he did.

These types of secrets aren't good for anyone.

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My thoughts are... it just goes to show you the type of people that WS can be. That might ruffle a few feathers, but honestly, after seeing the things I have seen on this site, I am never surprised by anything that the selfish, entitled, home wrecking WS can do. I guess this is just the worst case scenario.

I have no idea if it involved infidelity or not... but there was another story that hit the news a few days ago concerning an entire family that was killed...looks like by the father who shot himself to make it look like he was a victim... but my first thought was I wonder who was cheating on whom.

Make when I made that statement i was posting on what Piojitos had posted, the mindset of a "cop" who will commit a crime like this, just because you are in law enforcement does not make you a smart criminal if you throw arrogance into the pot.

Just look at Pam Smart got on tv cried invisible tears as well as S. Petersen, with his fake pain and Just hearing Cutts voice on his interview, did not sound real but forced.

I know it's motive that catches people but, just like if a H/W is murdered they will look at the remaining spouse as in case of a G/B relationship, that is a given, as well it should be.


Plus I didn't say that it's an everyday occurance when the perp represents himself, I said or ment to say that when they do it's because they do think they are smarter than the rest of the population.

O.J. got away with murder because of the all the Rodney Kings and the Sunnyvalley case where the cops got away with beating black men, and all that crap....... which I find very ugly, and before anyone does a 2X4 on me, I did here this from one of the many interviews on tv by random peopleon the street.

That story about the family in the Suv was infidelity related , father was arrested at the funeral home. and just to make case, their has been a couple of other cases where the perp shot himself also to throw the case off, but like this overkill on thw wife/husband but just a flesh wound on the perp.

Scott did cheat on Laci while he was in college, she I think walked in on him and the other woman, who didn't even know that he had a wife or girlfriend, (not sure if they were married at the time), the ow I think believed that Laci was the ow.

The only way they found out about Amber Fry was that Amber came forward.

None of her family knew...if Laci had known, she didn't tell them.

On this site, some of the descriptions of the WS behavior by their BS prompts me to think that the first bit of advice to a newbie should be "protect yourself physically by EXPOSING". Not exposing is more likely to get you killed than exposing...because once people know, they are under scrutiny.

This is true especially when the BS posts about the abuse in their marriage. Safety should always be the top priority.

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Sorry, I didn't mean Amber this was way before Amber, yes I do agree with you, Dateline had a show where the wife the bs was sure that her ws was trying to kill her by posion, see he was having an affaire with some woman in Norway, while he lived with his bs he would fly out there and visit his gf, he kept telling his wife that he would stop his visit and do the whole no contact thing......... but he didn't............ she leave him in the end.

I think that once the ws shows such a callous regard to his bs is the time to watch your back......because things could go either way, and yes exposing in the way to go I agree...
I hate to say it but I have become so cynical, That when a poster says that her or his ws has promised this and that is to get it in writing......and until you see them doing it take everything with a grain of salt.

I'm not at all saying that she deserved to be killed...I want to make that perfectly clear...

BUT..don't you think that cases like this could be a perfect opportunity for it to be communicated in the media how DANGEROUS it can be to ENABLE such an ILLICIT and IMMORAL LIFESTYLE...

It seems from the pictures that her FAMILY/FRIENDS had BABY SHOWERS for her, a woman having children with a MARRIED MAN who for most of the pregnancy continued to live with his WIFE...

How TRAGIC this must be for his "legitimate" child with his WIFE...

I totally agree. The family seemed very, very supportive of this woman's living arrangements and did not appear to see anything wrong with it. I don't know if they were just in denial or what, but all they did was legitimise and encourage and enable a very dangerous and destructive relationship which eventually got their daughter killed.


And of course, his wife and his legitimate child are virtually ignored in all this. I don't mean their privacy should be invaded, but no one seems to care about their suffering. I wonder how they are doing today.
Mulan

DEVASTATED!! My heart ACHES for them!!

I totally agree. The family seemed very, very supportive of this woman's living arrangements and did not appear to see anything wrong with it. I don't know if they were just in denial or what, but all they did was legitimise and encourage and enable a very dangerous and destructive relationship which eventually got their daughter killed.

That's a reach. I don't see how you came up with that conclusion.

In the big scheme of things...their daughter is dead. I don't think I would be focusing on those kind of things if all I had wanted to do is to find my daughter.

AND...their daughter was an adult. It is NOT within their power to make her do anything. Just because they didn't get on the TV and bash her living arrangement, or lifestyle does NOT mean that they are accepting of it. It wasn't the time for that...or is that difficult for you to see?

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Well from what I've heard from the reports is that they were separated since Feb of this year, so she must have kicked him out or he left her, I also think they said she was livning with family members. I think I said it before, that from what I gathered that she just found out in Feb also that Jessie was pregnant again and I think that is when she left or when the sep occured.

Your right about the whole sitch, I think commom sense would tell you not to get involved with a MM to begin with but to get pregnant a second time is not very smart baring in mind the the first oc is 2 yrs old and your still in limbo, I guess it falls under hate the sin and not the sinner.

I know that some of the posters here have oc born out of an affaire but if a ws has more than 1 oc, the that ws has shown that he does not care for any one but his own pleasure and has show a callousness to all involved.

I think our society has become too condoning of IMMORALITY.

This kind of behavior is more than that it is DANGEROUS.

I have adult kids and I certainly know about my inability to CONTROL them.

BUT out of my love for them, when they engage in risk-taking behaviors that could prove dangerous and hurtful, I am definitely not supportive and do not just sit back and enable their actions.