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hi moving my question here on advice of another. was looking at hubby's phone, found porn pics, asked who this was? He denied they were his, then said they were a friends and then ultimately admited they were his. big argument: checked phone records he has talked to this women a few times on his phone. the porn, no big deal. the fact he talked to a women whom he has porn of, unacceptable. he has apologized for lying, and not intentionally hurting me but refuses to apologize about talking to her. He sees no wrong in talking to her, how do i let him know this is unacceptable in our relationship?
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Hi Suzy.

Explain to him how much the incident hurt your feelings. It's not about being jealous or insecure. Just common courtesy. If he still continues talking to her, you will have to ask yourself if it is worth staying with someone who blatantly disrespects your feelings.

Do you have children?
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i have tried for the last two weeks to tell him exactly how i felt and how much it was disrespectful to me. he still believes talking to her is not wrong. he has said he will not contact her, but because he believes talkin to her is not wrong, i now look at phone and text messages. my trust is shot atm. im very confused and not sure my next move. i have 4 kids and none are his we have been together bout 31/2 years now

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