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I have a WH who is one of those uncommunicative types. I mentioned counselling once and had a screaming row on my hands.
I’m interested in hearing views of those that have used the EN questionnaire with their WS’s. How did you get them to complete it, if like mine they are cynical of questionnaires? How did you analyze them? What did you find out that surprised you. Did it help with communication? Was it useful?
Did anyone’s WS discover through this why they had an affair in the first place?
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I don't understand why the mentioning of counseling would bring on a screaming row. It is vital for him to understand why he had an affair to keep it from happening again. It doesn't sound like he is very interested in your recovery.
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