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Please weigh in on Jethro's thread if you get a chance.
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Jethro, I am sorry for your pain. Stone said it, she is lashing out in pain and us BS's end up taking the brunt of it. Please remember that he is NOT a better man. Would a better man choose to have an affair with a married woman? She is spouting off wayward bull. As far as the children are concerned, they will make up their own minds. Stay strong for your children and they will continue to love you and will come to realize just how mean your WW's comments are. Now is the time to grow some really thick skin and hang in there...
((((((Jethro))))))
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Any OM whose MW has kids and the W feels like she has to degrade the dad of the kids...Watch the OM, he could be a creeper, in it for the kids. Yeah, yuck. The WW rarely gets the OM's real interest in time.
Look up the percentage molestation rate of mom's BF or of stepfathers.
Not a happy topic.
Lor
Married 1983
H's co-worker PA began 1998
Multiple separations
Marital recovery 2000
H deployment 14 mo 2004-2005
Empty nest fall 2006
Whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, gracious...think about these things. Phil 4:8
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yea, my WW told me that OM wanted to take care of her and MY KIDS...After laughing, I was appalled at how ridiculous that statement was...I said, "Over my dead body!" It is funny how waywards believe their own BS (or maybe they don't)...
Romans 8:28-All things work together for good for those that love the Lord and are called according to His purpose.
BH (me) 30 yrs old (Currently in Middle East until August)
WW 32 yrs old
Married 7 yrs
2 beautiful daughters-3 and 4
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