katie_mae I’m not trying to sugar coat nothing. I’m trying to get her back here so you all can help her, if she’s not here, than you cant help her can you?

I have been cheated on many times before, and even thought I’m not married yet, I have been married before. I know what it feels like, but this woman as bad of a mistake that she made is STILL a human being. AND pregnant!!

Like I said, I have been married before, and I know how it is to be abused at and threatened, and be worried sick because you have little children and no where to go.

I did not feel the need to give 2X8’s because when she came here she was remorseful and knew what she had done was wrong, and she WAS going to tell her H about the second A, she was just asking for advice on how and when to tell him.

A lot of people here told her that she should loose her kids, I think that’s wrong. A mother should not loose her kids because of an A.

And granted neither should he, but that would be between them and the courts to decide not us, but from what she said( to bad she deleted it) her husband wad very abusive to her, verbally and physically (even though she did not say) I know the pattern believe me!!

In one of her post she even said that his family was also concerned about her safety. Do you remember that post?

I’m really concern about her now, now she won’t make the right decisions because now she’s even more scared and concern because of her children, we did not help her at all here, just made the situation worse.( IMO)

Again what she did WAS wrong, I know but, she knew that already too, and we did not needed to give her 2x8’s right away.

There is other posters here with very similar situations like hers and I have not seen you all be hard on them as you were with this woman.

I truly feel for her, I’m just that way I guess, my nature and my religion tells me that you should help the sinners and not push them away with harsh words, after all, how do you think the story about JESUS and Mary Magdalene would have read if HE would have said to her what you’ve all said to this woman???

I thought this was a website for help for anybody not only for the righteous.
( I know I’m going to catch he** for this one)

Some of the posters were telling her that she only cared about herself, I never saw it that way, she was remorseful and she knew she did wrong, she called herself culprit ( offender, criminal, guilty party, wrongdoer) she wanted to tell him about the second A but was worried about her H being so far away and she knew he would take it harder if she told him over the phone. She never came back to tell us if it was possible for her to go where he was. I’m assuming money, her pregnancy and maybe him being in the military was a big factor, but then again you know what happens if you assume.

I know you all meant right, I just think we all could have gone at it differently, that’s all.

GOD BLESS

P. S. Me 44 ( married 3 times) All cheated on me and abused me.
BF. 48 ( married 2 times) All cheated on him
6 kids all together (3 his 3 mine) Brady Bunch?