I realize this is rather pointless, but I just HAVE to vent for a minute about my DH's exW. She irritates me to no end. She went to college for the equivalent of a professional doctorate degree, fell in love with her fellow students, broke her family, and then slept around town. She broke my DH's heart (which I will hold against her for a long time) and she continually hurts the s-kids by being a "barely-there" parent, putting me in the position of having to work for and care for her kids. BTW, I LOVE the kids--I just resent the way that she neglects them.

What has set me off this time is that she went through ALL THIS damage to get her darn precious "degree" so she could get paid oodles of money--and she's in debt up to her eyeballs for her student loans--yet she hasn't worked for more than a year. We just found out that she does have a job...but get this...SHE'S DOING A PAPER ROUTE!! Yes, you read that right...A PAPER ROUTE!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

She went through all that, is in debt to the tune of hundreds of thousands, devastated my DH, abandoned her kids, and slept around the city like she was a dog in heat...

...SO SHE COULD GET A PAPER ROUTE!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

I will NEVER understand her, and I am so thankful I won't.

Yikes.

We all know that trying to understand WS's or FWS's warped thought processes is a fools game.Well, how is she paying the bills I wonder? Is she remarried?

You could go to court to have them "impute" income to her. With her degree, she's capable of making $X, but she chooses to make 10% of X. Then you could force her to pay CS.