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New nitemare,
I just woke up from a new nitemare where she had realized early on in the relationship that she never really loved me anyways. She had just stayed in the relationship until she realized that she just had to move on. Ouchy.

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Bob,

EXACTLY from the WS script.

rewriting history in its most basic form.

ILYBINILWY.

I haven't loved you for a long time.

I NEVER loved you.

We never should have gotten married.


She lied to cover her trail.
She's lying now to justify her current set of feelings.

Just one more lie and you only have to buy it if you want to accept it and pay for it.


It may be new to you, but the rest of us have heard it all before.

It is merely SOSDWS...Same old [censored] different wayward spouse....

Mark

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I meant that I literally woke up from sleep. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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I just woke up from another nitemare...

Someone was stealing my stuff. I confronted them. I thought that I could take the easy we out and let then steal my stuff and be done with it, or fight back. I chose to fight back and get my stuff back from them. As I started to wrestle my stuff back from the assailant it turned into a physical altercation. Then I woke up from the dream.

I think it's a metaphor about my life.

I was dreaming about my STBXW in here somewhere too. She was the first part of the dream. I seemed to be hiding from her or avoiding her. She caught up to me, and was all nicey-nicey to me, and giddy. I said, "Leave me the f**ck alone. Go away from me". She had the biggest look of disappointment on her face. And then left.

Then I was at some kinda Caribbean style bar/party or something. This was after I'd gotten away from STBXW. I was thinking about what had just happened between STBXW and I. I was hanging with STBXW H addicted brothers FGF's mom and having drinks (?). Then FGF and another friend or two of her mom's showed up.

Dreams/nitemares are weird.

BoB <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

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