Today I went to see my counselor. I was in a good mood & had left before WH got up. When I called to see if he was up & what his plans were for the day, he got irritated on the phone. I called a couple more times & he had that same tone in his voice. When I got home, I asked what I had done to irritate him. He got really p*ssy then. He said he had not used that tone. I just said "whatever" walked out & told him that I was really trying to watch my tone with him & he wouldn't even do the same for me. He claimed he was but I just kept on walking. We kinda got into it. He told me I was making mountains out of molehills, why did I need to know what his plans were, & I was being a child. He also said that he wasn't the only one who thought I was the biggest B**ch in the world. I asked who else & he wouldn't tell me. I told him that I don't imagine that tone because our friends & two of his co-workers have mentioned it. Just two weeks ago, one guy he works with was here cleaning fish. He asked my WH did he always talk to me that way & why did he. My WH came home & asked me if he did that. I told him yeah but I ignore it because he's always that way now.

Am I making too much out of it?? I think contact has resumed if it ever really stopped on his part. I have begged him to go back to OW & I have talked to him in a reasonable tone with no tears, telling him that he should go back because all the signs show that is where he needs to be. He won't go. Now he says he won't leave til the house is sold. She has a house & he could live there rent free but he won't. I just don't understand. If he doesn't want to be here & married to me, why won't he leave????
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> Why does he insist on making me miserable <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/teary.gif" alt="" /> & hurting me more by being here??? Any ideas??