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Hi it has been forever since I posted on this site. I finally got officially divorced after 4 1/2 yrs back in May. My ex H is still with the gf he left me for, but yet he still calls at times, saying it was good to hear my voice, or gets into an argument with his gf and comes here for a ride after a nite of drinking. I am way over him and even went on some dates and dated someone for awhile. Why after all this time and being divorced does he still think of me and call?
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Why, goldie, you are now the Other Woman! He's still fence sitting and cake eating.
Do you have hope of reconciling? [I am not recommending it ... just clarifying what is in your heart. Or not.]
Why do you take his calls?
Ever ask him Why he is calling you when he has the girlfriend?
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You are way over him goldie? Tell me how you did it so I can get over my wife.
me 38 her 36
married 3/30/91 , separated 7/07, final divorce papers just signed 3/08
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It takes alot of time. I got seperated in december of 02, I have been through him coming back a couple times. I got stronger. Plus working with people going through seperation, divorce, single people kept busy. When I found out my divorce was in the paper finally in May I was releived that is was finally over. Of course if him and his gf get married I think it will be upsetting in the beginning. You will get through it, there will be days when you look back and think of happy days and what ifs but does get easier. Just have to hang in, take a deep breath.
And for Bellevue no I do not have hopes of reconiling somewhere in my heart Iwill always love or care for my exhusband. I am a better person than him that is the way I look at it. I have a very good job for the past 2 yrs and I know he sees that I have come along way
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