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I know this is terrible and I feel very bad about it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> but I have just found out my husband is having an ea with someone. I absolutely need to break into his hotmail acc to confirm my suspicions or he will deny everything and I will be back at square 0 can someone HELP me do this please ???!!!
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You don't need to break into his email. What you need is to monitor your whole computer. A popular one is Spectorm Make sure you install it in Stealth mode so no pop up warning that the computer is monitored. AND it is illegal to do it on any computer other than your own without permission.
It is done behind the scenes and will show you passwords and all the sites he visits. Even secret online cell accounts.
Becasue a lot of times, there will be more than one email account. ANd it will show you what sites he visits. Like to look at porn etc.
WARNING******** Be prepared for the worst pain in your life when you see what he says and what he does. AND most of all. As much as you want to, do NOT ever tell him that you are doing this. Becasue he WILL go someplace else and then you will have no way of checking your facts.
BS-58/XH48
D final Dec31/07
Long hard road & at peace now
Unrepentant serial cheater living with DP4 for 4yrs
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Dragados, if you have regular access to the computer, install SpectorPro. If not, and you need reports emailed to you, install e-blaster. They can be found at http://www.spectorsoft.com/
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