Please see my current dilemma in General questions...

H is very good at hiding/covering up clues of A.

Is a travelling service person, in our state, but all over...no schedule estab. never know where he is.

If I took the day off, rented a car to follow him...he would know immediately.He calls to check in with me, ofetn. This actually is one of the things that initailly made me suspicious.

Company cell phone/no access to records.
Isn't using our PC
Isn't using our home phone for the A
Home generally, right after work.

I asked for advice on where toput the tape recorder in his truck. No answers. I am thinking a digital one?

Shoot, they cost about $70.00. And, I am afraid he will find it.

I want to get to Plan A.....How do I get there?

I need to bring this situation to a head, so to speak.

I have actually been feeling somewhat suicidal.

Help please. Suggestions, advice from others who had to seek out the truth in a similar way.

I know I sound crazy, but I am hurting bad.

Sledbabe,

I responded to your other post regarding the tape recorder.

Sledbabe, After I sent the last reply, I saw you mention you were somewhat suicidal. Remember this- NO ONE ON THIS EARTH IS WORTH THAT!

I know its a stressful time and not knowing for sure can be nerve wracking, but whats done in the dark , will be brought to the light ( of course a voice recorder helps sometimes bring it to the light sooner)

Like I said on your other post- if you feel something is off and your gut is talking to you- like everyone else said- its usually right, but you need to confirm and be ready for your findings.

Take care- stay calm and keep posting!