Ok, I know I have to give my WAW her space and she needs to be out on her own to sort through things. But, what is acceptable contact and interaction. Is going out with her and our son to dinner, movies etc. Ok. Or should I be cutting visits off totally and only have contact when she asked for it or when dropping off or picking up son. I do not want her to feel like I am pursuing her, but I do not want her to feel like I do not want to be around her either. We have always got along god as friends, it's just the M, R and intimacy stuff we struggle with.