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#1916071 07/27/07 04:41 PM
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He's on his way home now and can't wait til Sunday to show him tape of them walking hand in hand . think my son is going out so that's good . How do i start it off ...do i just say casually ,"hey come here , let me show u something on the computer . my head is spinning... know ya'll have been here before .should i just be quiet and see what happens ?

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not sure if you've already confronted, but i would do it exactly like that and get ready for the explosion! the i cant believe you had someone follow me, spent money on that etc etc.

me, i would show him and walk away- dont lose it , yet. if i did talk, i would be calm as possible- or opposite of how you normally act, if you know what i mean. let him think for a while. i normally react with wanting to talk,talk, talk, so a couple months ago when i played the voice recorder, i played it, said a couple of 'rehearsed' sentences and left. so opposite of my normal behavior. he called my cell several times b/cause for once in 22 years, he didnt know where i was or what was on my mind.


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