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u have a tape of holding hands and still denying ? WTF what did u say to make them come clean
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so i assume you showed it to him.
as far as what to say to make them come clean- i wouldnt say anything other than until we have truth on this matter- we cannot move on. then i'd stop talking- stop trying to get him to fess up. it will just frustrate you. he's not dumb, he knows what you showed him.
denial is the first response...
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ur right on with your response , he's not up yet ...will he act like nothings happened? what was ur case .
Should i just be happy and unfazed (kind of hard to do when my stomach is in a knot LOL)
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You know he's cheating. He knows he's cheating. Why do you need the confession? He won't fess up to much until he's in recovery. You need to work at breaking up the affair. I would consult the Harleys to get a plan.
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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i agree with jim- he wont fess up - you now the deal/he knows you know the deal. get your plan together.
good luck and most of all stay calm so you can think
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khb, just checking to see how your are doing.
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thanks chacha for checking in ... read and read and decided to call ow h to give him heads up.. wish someone had done that for me . no one home left message for him to call me and left my cell # .who know's who will get the message but will try again tomorrow . glad she didn't answer but was prepared .didn't want to get in pissing match with her... won't stoop to that so glad she didn't answer.
Stomach knots are a little better and have at least eaten today but still a mess... u know what i mean .
hey ,what's going on with your story ?
Thanks again for ur concern - much appreciated
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