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OMG!!!! How wonderful is that to see!!
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wonderful Rin! I am so proud of you!
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Oh, someone asked about the bike being sold...he's got to sell teh HArley...it was the yamaha that he "sold"...
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Thank you MEDC!
I was sitting here and it just hit me...I was Thanking GOd for everything and the tears just started coming!
It's a relief...I feel so lite!
A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
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I am not at all surprised. You were prepared, organized and mentally ready.
Great job Rin!
Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain’t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!
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Rin,
You should stop by the hallmark store and by the
"XH!!!!!" a thank you card.
All the trials and tribulations that he put you through only helped you.
His short term games cost him long term pain.
Congratulations. Oh and laptops are cheap now if you find them on sale. I got mine for $350 added some memory and I am on my way.
BS 38
FWW 35
D Day 10/03
Recovery started 11/06
3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby
When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.
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God has ansswered your prayers
Psalm 70 (The Message)
1-3 God! Please hurry to my rescue! God, come quickly to my side!
Those who are out to get me—
let them fall all over themselves.
Those who relish my downfall—
send them down a blind alley.
Give them a taste of their own medicine,
those gossips off clucking their tongues.
4 Let those on the hunt for you
sing and celebrate.
Let all who love your saving way
say over and over, "God is mighty!"
5 But I've lost it. I'm wasted.
God—quickly, quickly!
Quick to my side, quick to my rescue!
God, don't lose a minute.
Happiness is not having what you want, it's wanting what you have.
WWPBSD?
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The High Road may be the hard road, but it's the most rewarding route. You stayed the course and worked very hard.
Now, you had to know that we were all drumming our fingers waiting to hear some news! WE CARE!!!
Me-BS-38
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Divorced April 2009
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Great news, Rin. I'm happy for you!
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Rin!!!
YAY!!!
I am doing the happy dance right now for you and the boys! Your prayers were answered!
Frog... now I do not think sending a thank you note would be nice... Remember, take the high road! LOL!
It would good to see such great news!
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Excellent news, Rin!! What a relief!!
You are on your way. You have strength, guts, and two wonderful boys. Life is good.
I am so happy for you! No one deserves this more than you.
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Sounds great, Rin.
Wow, you've hung in there on such a long road. Nice to see it pay off for you!
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Great news. I've watched you bloom from a crushed flower bud into a confident, standin' up for yourself and kids woman. You have done a great job...ATTA GIRL!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
Marriages don't fail, people do.
(And I don't recall who said it)
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Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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LMAO...Thank you card!!! LMAO <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I was so exhausted I had to take a nap...POWS was suppose to leave a CS check at teh sitter but didn't...MIL and FIL were with him and they said that they would give it to me SUnday... The condition was that I couldn't do anything with it until Monday anyway... Frog- where did you get that laptop? If they are that cheap, I think that I'm going to get F and L a desktop to replace the old desktop at home...I don't know, just a thought right now... I'm feeling really good, going to dinner with a friend to celebrate... My phones been ringing off the hook...I AM Loved!!! LMAO...still need to call some people...Whheooo! So what's the score now? WS 0 BS 5 LMAO <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Rin,
I am so happy for you. You worked hard and you deserve it.
Doing a happy dance for you and your boys.
Still
BW me 46
WH 46
Together 28 years married 23
3 Kids DD20, DD17 and DS 14
DD #1 (1st A) 10/13/01 with single OW who was co-worker
DD#2 1/23/02 phone call from OW
WH left job 4/02
MC 10/01 to 4/02 (when he showed up)
Separated 7/04 to 10/04
Retrouvaille 9/04
Red Flags 11/05
DD#1 (2nd affair) 8/16/06 with MOW age 29 twice married and he's her boss.
Moved out (him) weekend after labor day
23rd anniversary 10/7/07
Filed 10/18/06 still seeing MOW
Dropped divorce complaint 6/7/07
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Doin' the Happy Dance for you Girl!!!
Hope you had a great celebration!
BS (me)
ExWS -Drac
DD 9
DSS 15
D Day 11/06
Divorced 10/01/07
"You Can't Fix Stupid" - My Mom
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Glad to see things worked out for you and your family. It is nice to right prevail.
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Hello, THank you ALL so much! My gratitude list is so long...
I just got home from a wonderful night out...didn't answer my cell phone...just relaxed and enjoyed the evening...
It's been an amazing day...I have leftover sushi...I had my favorite a seaweed salad...
It's just been a wonderful, wonderful...awesome day...the boys are at thier dad's for the weekend, so I get some peace and quiet from the long exhausting week...I have nothing planned...except washing some clothes...
I'm just going to rest up and enjoy the little things in life...I have smiled SOOOO much today, laughed, and enjoyed being...even during the process today...it was long but well worth it and I'm SOOO happy that my kids are going to be able to return home...
we had talked about letting them paint their own rooms...redecorating...I'm looking forward to it!!!!
My heart is so huge and pull...Wonder if life gets any better than this? LMAO
Good night to all...you are all in my thoughts and prayers...wishing you the best...
((((GROUP HUG))))
A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
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Hi, ALL! I'm just checking in...I went to the store today and picked out my new colors for my bedrrom and bathroom... Those will be the first ones to be changed...figure I need a different enviroment to sleep in when I get back... I've had a good and quiet weekend without the boys...looking forward to getting them back... yesterday, I went gets some boxes and packed up some of our stuff...got some extra ones for POWS stuff when I get home... Did I mention that he has to leave everything except his personal stuff!!! Anyway, I'm going relax a little more before the boys come come... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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