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POWS just TMed me with "Happy Birthday!!!"
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I just replied "Thank you!!!"
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What IS THIS????? Rin. You should know by now not to read too much into anything POWS does. Who knows what his motives are? Who cares? Maybe he's just being a "Nice Guy" for a minute. Is he playing games? He can't if you don't play. He'd have to do 100x more than send you a Happy Birthday wish to restore any semblance of being a Decent Man. When or if he ever does that, then CARE about what he says or thinks. Your response to him was enough. Carry on celebrating YOUR day!
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Thank YOU EO! That means alot to me! AmI, I plan to do the best that I can! PM---YOU GOT THAT RIGHT!!! he would have a few years of work as far as I'm concerned!!!! LMAO... It was just a birthday wish! Nothing more nothing less! LMAO>>>CARRYING ON!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Happy birthday Rin. Ignore pows....he doesn't deserve your time.
enjoy your day.
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or send him a text back and tell him you'd like your tools back as a present!
btw...what is happening with that?
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Thanks MEDC! I haven't heard anything about it and I refuse to deal with that stuff today! I may call tomorrow b/c I have a few other things that I would like to talk to them about with the custody thing! Holiday schedule, arrears check (he has until the 14th to pay), etc... I've been getting the few things that I need and the only thing that I don't have for the basic stuff around the house is a ladder right now...but I borrowed two step ladders for the time being... I'll leave POWS to his miserable life... I'm waiting on my pressure washer to come in...I'm excited about that! LMAO...happy B-day ME!!<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Thanks SMiley!
I just got FLOWERS AND POPCORN! HURRAY!!!
I love both of them!!!!!
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Rin:
I see the scene tonight:
Your boys carry in the birthday cake, with the 29 candles....
You try to blow them out, but they are the relighting kind....
Your sons are rolling on the floor and laughing....
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I can see you putting out the candles with your new leaf blower....
And seeing your boys covered in frosting!
Talk about a birthday!
Make it happy!
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BLAHAHHAHAHHAHHA!! Thanks LG!!!! it's been wonderful!!! Then I could use my NEW shop VAC to help with the clean up after we roll around in it!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Actually, last night I was putting ice cream cake on the ends on their noses!!!! ANd stealing ice cream cake off their plates!!! We have the rest of that for tonight!!!
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No wait... then she takes her new power washer and cleans it all up in about two seconds.
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LMAO....yeah, the kids would look like Tom and Jerry when they lose their coats!!! BLAHHHHAHAHAHA! That would be funny! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Poppin in to say Happy Birthday Rin!
now back to my regularly scheduled lurking
BS 33 EXWW 35 DS 5
OM1 9/06 - 03/07
OM2 04/07 - present
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Just dropping in to say Happy B-day to you Rin.
Enjoy YOUR day!
Enjoy yourself.
Enjoy your kids.
Enjoy the new life you are making!
Enjoy your house.
Happiness is not having what you want, it's wanting what you have.
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BC...YOU NUT!!! Thank you kind Sir!
PBS- I was thinking about giving myself the night off from cooking and taking the kids somewhere for supper, but I can't figure out where I want to go!!
I'm completely enjoying my day! Thank you!
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If you do go out to eat, give your OS this note (but don't read it!!!):)
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FOR OS EYES ONLY
To OS: Excuse yourself to go to the RR and track down your waitperson. Tell them it's your mom's birthday and that she really LOVES surprises. Wouldn't it be nice if the whole waitstaff sang Happy Birthday?
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OKAY, PM! I printed it but <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> didn't read it!!!! Will give it to OS as soon as I can!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> LMAO...LMAO...LMAO... I'll tell him it's from YOU!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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OKAY, PM! I printed it but <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> didn't read it!!!! Will give it to OS as soon as I can!!! PM running as far away as possible to avoid the lightening strike. LOL Have a GREAT time!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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BLAHAHAHAHAH!!!! They don't need ANY help being like ME!!! LMAO... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> That's going to be the FIRST IDEA that crosses their minds and I know that they would love to do that for me... MOF, I'm going to let them skip religion tonight!! It's their gift to me, to spend time with them! Goofing off and having a great time!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> So, stand BACK!!!! BOOM!!! BOOMMMMM!!! LMAO
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Oh what a difference a year makes!!
Happy Birthday. Looks like you found the comfort you were needing!!!
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FWW 35
D Day 10/03
Recovery started 11/06
3 boys 12, 8 and a new baby
When life hands you lemons make lemonade then try to find the person life hands vodka and have a party.
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LMAO...FROG...Sure does look that way!!! Been a long year, but it's been a good one! MOF, in my personal calandar, I have it marked on the 20th to reevaluate my sitch...I was trying to give it a year before I made any changes! OH, PM...when I got the boys in the car and told them that we were going out to eat...OS said "I'm telling them it's your Birthday!" LMAO... I didn't even have the time to give him the letter...they both asked about not going to religion tonight...I said Lucky for you guys it's my birthday and I want to spend time with you!! OS wanted to come home first to change clothes...YS is tired and being cranky!!! THis will make for a great night!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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