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Re: Anyone going to the MB Weekend in San Fran this weekend?
OrangePearl #1919935 08/02/07 11:25 PM
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So sweet of chrisner's DD.

Me-BS, 40 Him-WH, 38 Ours-G, 7 and B 3 Married 1995 DDay 2/6/07 Status: Waiting, Plan A
Re: Anyone going to the MB Weekend in San Fran this weekend?
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OP:

Just state that you will be at the Airport and you expect you H to be there.

Let him flip-flop.

If your WH goes, he will find out MUCH more, about WHY he is where he is, and HE will realize how easy it can be to return.
Do not have much more time...

BUT GO!

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Re: Anyone going to the MB Weekend in San Fran this weekend?
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For the love of Pete....My WH is going again. He is going to meet me at the airport in 90 minutes. And he agreed to push back the appointment with the mediator until the end of August.

Me-BS, 40 Him-WH, 38 Ours-G, 7 and B 3 Married 1995 DDay 2/6/07 Status: Waiting, Plan A
Re: Anyone going to the MB Weekend in San Fran this weekend?
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For the love of Pete....My WH is going again. He is going to meet me at the airport in 90 minutes. And he agreed to push back the appointment with the mediator until the end of August.

Check his ID to make sure it is your H and NOT the WS. LOL!!! :griN;

Expect this weekend t/b a flip flop with him so if you need alone time, take it. Be safe though. San Fran c/b a spooky place in some areas and nice in others. Go to the Wharf, take stroll at Ghradelli Square and Pier 39. If you want to go to the GG lookout point it's a bit breeze but nice.

KKSF radio station has a morning brunch (or used to) check out their website for which Hotel has it (used t/b Hotel Nikko). Kinda fun.

Better yet, meet up with M4ver and go do lunch at Macy's. LOL!!! I mean the Cheesecake Factory. I know you guys got several down there but the Macy's one is fun!!

Aloha,
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Re: Anyone going to the MB Weekend in San Fran this weekend?
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M4ver,

Have a safe trip. Tell Steve we said Hi!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> He knows our motley crew. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

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Re: Anyone going to the MB Weekend in San Fran this weekend?
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Better yet, meet up with M4ver and go do lunch at Macy's. LOL!!! I mean the Cheesecake Factory. I know you guys got several down there but the Macy's one is fun!!

Hi MF and OP
You can ride the circular escalators in Bloomingdales. They have a fantastic food court and lots of shopping!! There is also a beautiful atrium that has a comfy seating area so that you can relax, refresh and people watch.
Wishing you both a good weekend with lots of love and learning <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Re: Anyone going to the MB Weekend in San Fran this weekend?
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So my WH and I went to the MB seminar. He took notes (most of the time). Got aggitated a few times. He spoke to Dr. Harley and SH individually. But I don't know what he said.

Then on Sunday morning, he announced that it was good information but that he would not do the program. He is moving forward with a D. My WH says that he doesn't want to spend a year working on our marriage. He is done. Wants out. Now what do I do?

Me-BS, 40 Him-WH, 38 Ours-G, 7 and B 3 Married 1995 DDay 2/6/07 Status: Waiting, Plan A
Re: Anyone going to the MB Weekend in San Fran this weekend?
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WS scares and wants out quick. Nothing you could do to stop him only to slow him down and buy time. You did your best and he doesn't want your best. Sorry it happens this way but you need to consult with your lawyer asap. Don't LB'ed but you need to protect yourself and your kids. Just play damsel in distress ... remember to say "My lawyer said ... " or "My lawyer told me ... ". Taking responsibilty out from you.

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